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Healed, Unbothered and Utterly Over It: The Day You Outgrew Your Avoidant Ex
Healed, Unbothered and Utterly Over It: The Day You Outgrew Your Avoidant Ex

Tom Robinson
Jul 30, 20252 min read


How to Respond When a Dismissive Avoidant Ex Sends a Breadcrumb Message…
How to Respond When a Dismissive-Avoidant Ex Sends a Breadcrumb Message
I’m over my dismissive-avoidant ex now, but for anyone still in the

Tom Robinson
Jul 29, 20252 min read


Why the Dismissive Avoidant Doesn’t Reflect, Change, or Apologise After Pulling Away.
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Why the Dismissive Avoidant Doesn’t Reflect, Change, or Apologise After Pulling Away
If you’ve ever been close to someone with a dismis

Tom Robinson
Jul 22, 20253 min read


How to Let Go of an Unhealed Dismissive Avoidant Ex
Letting Go: The Quiet Power of Moving On
One day, you stop writing about it.
You stop replaying the conversations in your head, stop wonder

Tom Robinson
Jul 19, 20252 min read


The Classic Warning Signs That You're Dealing With a Dismissive Avoidant
At first, they seem cool, independent, charming, maybe even mysterious. You think you’ve found someone confident and self-sufficient. But slowly, the mask slips — and you start seeing the pattern.

Tom Robinson
Jul 16, 20253 min read


Why the Avoidant Must Hit Rock Bottom to Heal
It’s not the kind of safety that comes from genuine closeness and vulnerability. It’s the safety of distance. Of control. Of keeping people at arm’s length behind emotional walls so thick that not even they can fully access what’s inside.

Tom Robinson
Jul 15, 20253 min read


The Moment You See the Truth About the Avoidant who “Freaked Out” and discarded You.
The Moment You See the Truth About the Avoidant Who Discarded You
There comes a point in your healing journ

Tom Robinson
Jul 13, 20253 min read


Is Your Ex Even Aware of Their Unhealed Dismissive Avoidant Attachment Style?
Dismissive avoidants often aren't aware

Tom Robinson
Jul 9, 20254 min read


When You Realise the Avoidant was More Damaged Than You!
When You Realise the Avoidant Was More Damaged Than You
There’s a moment — not sudden, but gradual — when it finally dawns on you: the person who pushed you away, who made you feel like you were “too much,” too emotional, too needy, too intense — they were the one more damaged than you.
I used to think I was the problem. I was the empath — deeply emotional, hungry for connection, desperate to love and be loved in return. And he was the mirror opposite: emotionally unavailab

Tom Robinson
Jul 6, 20253 min read


From Bipolar to Breakthrough: How I Found Healing Through Self-Discovery
From Bipolar to Breakthrough: How I Found Healing Through Self-Discovery

Tom Robinson
Jul 3, 20253 min read


Letting Go of Past Relationships- how to move forward!
Being tossed aside, breadcrumbed, and emotionally thrown around by someone you truly loved—but who was emotionally unavailable—is a kind of

Tom Robinson
Jul 2, 20252 min read


How to Recognise a Dismissive Avoidant Partner - And Leave Before They Emotionally Discard you
How to Recognize a Dismissive-Avoidant — And Leave Before They Emotionally Discard You
If you’ve ever felt confused, neglected, or suddenly

Tom Robinson
Jul 1, 20253 min read


When the Dismissive Avoidant Realises too Late! ⏰
When the Dismissive Avoidant Realises Too Late
One of the most painful things about loving a dismissive avoidant is that they often don’t e

Tom Robinson
Jun 30, 20252 min read


Dismissive Avoidants: unhealed Blocking and Ghosting
When someone avoidant ghosts you or blocks you, it says everything about them — and nothing about you.
Let’s be honest: disappearing, going

Tom Robinson
Jun 29, 20251 min read


Romantic Relationships: A Final Farewell to the Avoidant
Letting Go of the Avoidant: A Goodbye That Sets Me Free
The avoidant discards you in silence—cold, sudden, often without warning. And just

Tom Robinson
Jun 26, 20252 min read


Letting Go of the “Freaking Out” Unhealed
At some point, you stop romanticizing the cycle. You understand your own patterns — the anxious pull, the over-functioning, the deep need to

Tom Robinson
Jun 24, 20252 min read


Why They Discard the Right One And End Up Resentful
At first, the avoidant feels in control.
They pull away from intensity, convincing themselves that emotional chaos equals danger. So when t

Tom Robinson
Jun 16, 20252 min read
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