Healed, Unbothered and Utterly Over It: The Day You Outgrew Your Avoidant Ex

How to Respond When a Dismissive-Avoidant Ex Sends a Breadcrumb Message I’m over my dismissive-avoidant ex now, but for anyone still in the

⸻ Why the Dismissive Avoidant Doesn’t Reflect, Change, or Apologise After Pulling Away If you’ve ever been close to someone with a dismis

Letting Go: The Quiet Power of Moving On One day, you stop writing about it. You stop replaying the conversations in your head, stop wonder

At first, they seem cool, independent, charming, maybe even mysterious. You think you’ve found someone confident and self-sufficient. But slowly, the mask slips — and you start seeing the pattern.

It’s not the kind of safety that comes from genuine closeness and vulnerability. It’s the safety of distance. Of control. Of keeping people at arm’s length behind emotional walls so thick that not even they can fully access what’s inside.

The Moment You See the Truth About the Avoidant Who Discarded You There comes a point in your healing journ

Dismissive avoidants often aren't aware

When You Realise the Avoidant Was More Damaged Than You There’s a moment — not sudden, but gradual — when it finally dawns on you: the person who pushed you away, who made you feel like you were “too much,” too emotional, too needy, too intense — they were the one more damaged than you. I used to think I was the problem. I was the empath — deeply emotional, hungry for connection, desperate to love and be loved in return. And he was the mirror opposite: emotionally unavailab

From Bipolar to Breakthrough: How I Found Healing Through Self-Discovery

Being tossed aside, breadcrumbed, and emotionally thrown around by someone you truly loved—but who was emotionally unavailable—is a kind of

How to Recognize a Dismissive-Avoidant — And Leave Before They Emotionally Discard You If you’ve ever felt confused, neglected, or suddenly

When the Dismissive Avoidant Realises Too Late One of the most painful things about loving a dismissive avoidant is that they often don’t e

When someone avoidant ghosts you or blocks you, it says everything about them — and nothing about you. Let’s be honest: disappearing, going

Letting Go of the Avoidant: A Goodbye That Sets Me Free The avoidant discards you in silence—cold, sudden, often without warning. And just

At some point, you stop romanticizing the cycle. You understand your own patterns — the anxious pull, the over-functioning, the deep need to

At first, the avoidant feels in control. They pull away from intensity, convincing themselves that emotional chaos equals danger. So when t