top of page
Categories
SIGN UP
Search


Your Ex: Their Curated Life isn't Love!
your ex is an actor who can't do real love

Tom Robinson
Dec 28, 20252 min read
Â
Â
Â


How to Finally Get Over Your Dismissive-Avoidant Ex (And Why Theyâre the One Who Lost).
How to Finally Get Over Your Dismissive-Avoidant Ex (And Why Theyâre the One Who Lost

Tom Robinson
Sep 9, 20253 min read
Â
Â
Â


The Quiet Bliss of Letting Go đ
The Quiet Bliss of Letting Go
There is a moment â a distinct, quiet turning point â when suffering softens into understanding. When pain, o

Tom Robinson
Jun 8, 20252 min read
Â
Â
Â


From Anxious to Free: My Healing Journey â¤ď¸âđŠš
Dismissive avoidant đ

Tom Robinson
May 13, 20252 min read
Â
Â
Â


Letting go of the Avoidant Ex and healing my attachment wounds - the root to true healing
Iâve truly begun to heal my attachment style and free myself from the grip of my dismissive avoidant ex

Tom Robinson
Mar 29, 20253 min read
Â
Â
Â


Romantic devastation: Finding Closure from a Dismissive-Avoidant Breakup
Let me be clearâthe dismissive-avoidant provides no closure. I spent years ruminating, trying to make sense of why he pulled the rug out fro

Tom Robinson
Mar 24, 20254 min read
Â
Â
Â


Ex-partners and mental health: Why dismissive avoidants end up miserable
Ex-partners and mental health: Why dismissive avoidants end up miserable

Tom Robinson
Mar 23, 20253 min read
Â
Â
Â


Long-Term Relationship with a Dismissive Avoidant (And Why It Hurts Both People)
Dismissive avoidants often don't choose the person who lights them up or stirs something deep inside them. In fact, they usually reject that

Tom Robinson
Mar 21, 20254 min read
Â
Â
Â


Taking the Knife Out of My Heart: Healing Beyond the Diagnosis
Dismissive avoidants reject the one who gets closest, not because of that personâs flaws, but because they cannot reciprocate emotionally

Tom Robinson
Mar 19, 20253 min read
Â
Â
Â


Reclaiming sleep post dismissive avoidant discard
Seventeen years ago, my sleep was decimated. Not by a physical ailment, not by an external crisis, but by a romantic discard at the hands of

Tom Robinson
Feb 26, 20254 min read
Â
Â
Â


Healing from the Dismissive Avoidant
Breaking Free from Dismissive Avoidant Abuse Going back into the past to process the core wound of my sufferingâbeing ruthlessly...

Tom Robinson
Feb 25, 20253 min read
Â
Â
Â


Healing from the Avoidant Dismissive
Healing from an Avoidant Dismissive: My Journey I had to take my site down for a while to focus on myself. From the very start of this...

Tom Robinson
Feb 24, 20252 min read
Â
Â
Â


Harnessing the power of bipolar - creative genius!
"There is an internal landscape, a geography of the soul; we search for its outlines all our lives." It was this sentence that...

Tom Robinson
Oct 6, 20243 min read
Â
Â
Â


Dealing with anxiety and maintaining optimal mental health and well-being
I feel like Iâve got writers block this morning. Thereâs a post that I really want to get out but Iâm not sure how to tackle it and I...

Tom Robinson
Apr 21, 20224 min read
Â
Â
Â


The myth of eight hours: why I will NEVER medicate myself for sleep ever again!
I haven't been able to write much over the last few weeks since I've been so busy with other things. I seem to spend all of my time being...

Tom Robinson
Apr 11, 20225 min read
Â
Â
Â


Sleep - I need three things: a spiritual psychiatrist, a functional medic/psychiatrist & more of it!
It's been an odd few weeks for me sleep-wise and here I am again wide-awake at 05.30 with a bipolar brain that refuses to sleep for more...

Tom Robinson
Mar 15, 20224 min read
Â
Â
Â


YouTube video: are relationships with others the root cause of all mental suffering?
I wanted to write a quick post this morning and attach my latest YouTube video which I recorded earlier this week. To be completely...

Tom Robinson
Mar 12, 20223 min read
Â
Â
Â


An emotional #shitstorm: dealing with multiple thoughts, feelings, and emotions
I haven't been able to write much recently because I've been consumed with other things such as: recording YouTube videos, writing...

Tom Robinson
Mar 9, 20224 min read
Â
Â
Â


Mad in America publish an article I wrote about my horrendous double-decade bipolar horror story
Today's post is literally going to be a couple of paragraphs - nothing like my usual involved and detailed entries so my apologies for...

Tom Robinson
Mar 4, 20222 min read
Â
Â
Â


Oh bipolar brain, the stars are brightly shining; now shut up and go to sleep for God's sake!!
I have been busy over the last few days creating video content for YouTube as I explore a new avenue in this mission to get noticed,...

Tom Robinson
Feb 23, 20224 min read
Â
Â
Â
bottom of page

