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Your Avoidant Ex: The Great Escape (spoiler; you can’t outrun yourself.) 😆
Dismissive avoidant core wound of shame. Your ex and healing

Tom Robinson
Jan 33 min read


The Tragedy for Your Avoidant Ex’s Partner
The Slow Unraveling: What Happens to the Partner of a Dismissive-Avoidant Over Time
Dismissive-avoidant patterns don’t usually explode; the

Tom Robinson
Dec 9, 20253 min read


The Avoidant Fails at The One Thing that Means Everything- LOVE.
The truth about avoidants is that they cannot handle accountability. They run from it, deflect it, twist it, anything but face the reality o

Tom Robinson
Sep 22, 20252 min read


How to Finally Get Over Your Dismissive-Avoidant Ex (And Why They’re the One Who Lost).
How to Finally Get Over Your Dismissive-Avoidant Ex (And Why They’re the One Who Lost

Tom Robinson
Sep 9, 20253 min read


Love Means Different Things to Different Attachment Styles
Love Means Different Things to Different Attachment Styles

Tom Robinson
Sep 4, 20251 min read


The Tragic Loop of the Dismissive Avoidant Ex
The Tragic Loop of the Dismissive Avoidant: Why Loving Them Feels Like Madness
If you’ve ever fallen for a dismissive avoidant, you’ll under

Tom Robinson
Aug 25, 20252 min read


How to Respond When a Dismissive Avoidant Ex Sends a Breadcrumb Message…
How to Respond When a Dismissive-Avoidant Ex Sends a Breadcrumb Message
I’m over my dismissive-avoidant ex now, but for anyone still in the

Tom Robinson
Jul 29, 20252 min read


Is Your Ex Even Aware of Their Unhealed Dismissive Avoidant Attachment Style?
Dismissive avoidants often aren't aware

Tom Robinson
Jul 9, 20254 min read


From Bipolar to Breakthrough: How I Found Healing Through Self-Discovery
From Bipolar to Breakthrough: How I Found Healing Through Self-Discovery

Tom Robinson
Jul 3, 20253 min read


Letting Go of Past Relationships- how to move forward!
Being tossed aside, breadcrumbed, and emotionally thrown around by someone you truly loved—but who was emotionally unavailable—is a kind of

Tom Robinson
Jul 2, 20252 min read


How to Recognise a Dismissive Avoidant Partner - And Leave Before They Emotionally Discard you
How to Recognize a Dismissive-Avoidant — And Leave Before They Emotionally Discard You
If you’ve ever felt confused, neglected, or suddenly

Tom Robinson
Jul 1, 20253 min read


When the Dismissive Avoidant Realises too Late! ⏰
When the Dismissive Avoidant Realises Too Late
One of the most painful things about loving a dismissive avoidant is that they often don’t e

Tom Robinson
Jun 30, 20252 min read


Letting Go of the “Freaking Out” Unhealed
At some point, you stop romanticizing the cycle. You understand your own patterns — the anxious pull, the over-functioning, the deep need to

Tom Robinson
Jun 24, 20252 min read


Why They Discard the Right One And End Up Resentful
At first, the avoidant feels in control.
They pull away from intensity, convincing themselves that emotional chaos equals danger. So when t

Tom Robinson
Jun 16, 20252 min read


The Laughter in detachment 😂
The avoidant ex and the laughter of letting go

Tom Robinson
Jun 15, 20251 min read


Thank You, Avoidant Ex - You Taught Me All I Needed to Know
The anxious wins the heartbreak race

Tom Robinson
Jun 11, 20252 min read


The Quiet Bliss of Letting Go 😘
The Quiet Bliss of Letting Go
There is a moment — a distinct, quiet turning point — when suffering softens into understanding. When pain, o

Tom Robinson
Jun 8, 20252 min read


Is Romantic Love the Cause of “Mental Illness”?
What if love is the real cause of depression?
I’ve known too many beautiful, sensitive people who took their own lives.
All of them were c

Tom Robinson
Jun 7, 20253 min read


Dismissive Avoidant Ex? The Truth Behind the Mask 👻
The dismissive avoidant wears a convincing mask. At first, they seem composed, independent, emotionally "above it all." But underneath that

Tom Robinson
Jun 2, 20252 min read


The More They Love You, The Faster They Run 🏃♂️
The More a Dismissive Avoidant Loves You, the Faster They Run
It’s one of the most painful relationship experiences: when someone you care

Tom Robinson
May 24, 20252 min read
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