I wish I’d known what it actually takes to get over an avoidant. The truth is, it’s surprisingly simple. It’s also one of the hardest things you’ll ever do. For a long time, I thought healing would come from getting answers, having one last conversation, or finally making them understand what they’d done. I thought closure was something they could give me. It isn’t. Real healing starts when you stop asking questions about them and start asking questions about yourself.

The Stages of Surviving an Avoidant Ex

When You Finally Heal, the Breadcrumbs Stop Looking Like Love

There’s a particular kind of heartbreak that doesn’t come from being unloved. It comes from being loved by someone who was terrified of wha

To the Dismissive Avoidant Who Thinks They Have It All Figured Out

Dismissive avoidant ex partner and marriage

To the Avoidant Who Walked Away from Real Love If you’re the avoidant who walked away from the love of your life and built a “safe” but emo

Why It’s So Hard to Get Over Your Ex (Especially the Avoidant One) If you’re struggling to get over your ex, you’re not weak. You’re not broken. And you’re definitely not imagining how brutal it feels. They didn’t give you closure. They didn’t explain. They didn’t apologise. They didn’t let you ask questions. They just pulled away. One minute things felt good—maybe even great—and the next they were cold, distant, gone. Then, just to twist the knife, you see them on Instag

That is the particular cruelty of dating someone with an unhealed avoidant attachment style. You often have met someone who could be right, but they are far too emotionally unhealed to hold real love. Red Flags to look out for...

When an avoidant blocks you, it’s not because they don’t care. It’s because they do. They block you because they love you and they don’t kn

Dismissive avoidant core wound of shame. Your ex and healing

Dismissive avoidant ex and dating again

I hear it in close relationships all the time. The constant references to the ex. The one they ran from. The one who “freaked them out.” T

Dismissive avoidants in relationships

How Do You Know When You’ve Finally Processed What Happened With Your Avoidant Ex?

Imagine your ex’s pain years on

A Letter to the Dismissive Avoidant Who Ran From Love You ran from love. Not because it wasn’t real, but because it was. Your nervous syst

The Deadly Disease of “Being Busy” There is a deadly disease running through relationships, business, and modern life. It’s called being bu

The Slow Unraveling: What Happens to the Partner of a Dismissive-Avoidant Over Time Dismissive-avoidant patterns don’t usually explode; the

🖤 The Dismissive Avoidant Who Married “Nice” The dismissive avoidant finally settled down. They found someone “nice.” Someone who doesn’t