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Your Avoidant Ex: Why It's So Hard to Get Over Them
Why It’s So Hard to Get Over Your Ex (Especially the Avoidant One)
If you’re struggling to get over your ex, you’re not weak. You’re not broken. And you’re definitely not imagining how brutal it feels.
They didn’t give you closure. They didn’t explain. They didn’t apologise. They didn’t let you ask questions.
They just pulled away.
One minute things felt good—maybe even great—and the next they were cold, distant, gone. Then, just to twist the knife, you see them on Instag

Tom Robinson
Jan 84 min read


Red Flags to Look Out for With Avoidant Partners!
That is the particular cruelty of dating someone with an unhealed avoidant attachment style. You often have met someone who could be right, but they are far too emotionally unhealed to hold real love. Red Flags to look out for...

Tom Robinson
Jan 63 min read


Why Your Ex Freaked Out, Blocked and/or Ghosted You 👻
When an avoidant blocks you, it’s not because they don’t care.
It’s because they do.
They block you because they love you and they don’t kn

Tom Robinson
Jan 42 min read


Your Avoidant Ex: The Great Escape (spoiler; you can’t outrun yourself.) 😆
Dismissive avoidant core wound of shame. Your ex and healing

Tom Robinson
Jan 33 min read


Your Avoidant Ex: Letting Go and Dating Again!
Dismissive avoidant ex and dating again

Tom Robinson
Jan 23 min read


Your Avoidant Ex: Timing WAS NOT the problem!!
I hear it in close relationships all the time.
The constant references to the ex.
The one they ran from.
The one who “freaked them out.”
T

Tom Robinson
Dec 29, 20252 min read


Your Ex: The Lie of The Curated Life
Dismissive avoidants in relationships

Tom Robinson
Dec 28, 20252 min read


How Do You Know When You’ve Finally Processed What Happened With Your Avoidant Ex?
How Do You Know When You’ve Finally Processed What Happened With Your Avoidant Ex?

Tom Robinson
Dec 27, 20252 min read


Your Ex: The Quiet Exhaustion of Avoidance
Imagine your ex’s pain years on

Tom Robinson
Dec 26, 20253 min read


Your Ex: The Letter You Write (but don’t bother to send)
A Letter to the Dismissive Avoidant Who Ran From Love
You ran from love.
Not because it wasn’t real,
but because it was.
Your nervous syst

Tom Robinson
Dec 23, 20252 min read


Your Ex: The Unhealed Dismissive Avoidant and the Deadly Disease of Busyness 😆
The Deadly Disease of “Being Busy”
There is a deadly disease running through relationships, business, and modern life.
It’s called being bu

Tom Robinson
Dec 22, 20252 min read


The Tragedy for Your Avoidant Ex’s Partner
The Slow Unraveling: What Happens to the Partner of a Dismissive-Avoidant Over Time
Dismissive-avoidant patterns don’t usually explode; the

Tom Robinson
Dec 9, 20253 min read


🖤 Marrying “nice”…. Why it’s a disaster!
🖤 The Dismissive Avoidant Who Married “Nice”
The dismissive avoidant finally settled down.
They found someone “nice.” Someone who doesn’t

Tom Robinson
Nov 5, 20252 min read


How to Finally Get Over Your Dismissive-Avoidant Ex (And Why They’re the One Who Lost).
How to Finally Get Over Your Dismissive-Avoidant Ex (And Why They’re the One Who Lost

Tom Robinson
Sep 9, 20253 min read


Dismissive Avoidants: Yes, They Love You — But They’re Too Cowardly to Admit It!
Dismissive Avoidants: Yeah, They Love You — But They’re Too Cowardly to Admit It

Tom Robinson
Aug 26, 20252 min read


The Tragic Loop of the Dismissive Avoidant Ex
The Tragic Loop of the Dismissive Avoidant: Why Loving Them Feels Like Madness
If you’ve ever fallen for a dismissive avoidant, you’ll under

Tom Robinson
Aug 25, 20252 min read


Send the Closure Text - And Shut That Door for Good!
Send the Closure Text — And Shut That Door for Good
Healing changes everything.
When you’re truly healed, you realize you have nothing lef

Tom Robinson
Aug 21, 20252 min read


Healed, Unbothered and Utterly Over It: The Day You Outgrew Your Avoidant Ex
Healed, Unbothered and Utterly Over It: The Day You Outgrew Your Avoidant Ex

Tom Robinson
Jul 30, 20252 min read


How to Respond When a Dismissive Avoidant Ex Sends a Breadcrumb Message…
How to Respond When a Dismissive-Avoidant Ex Sends a Breadcrumb Message
I’m over my dismissive-avoidant ex now, but for anyone still in the

Tom Robinson
Jul 29, 20252 min read


How to Let Go of an Unhealed Dismissive Avoidant Ex
Letting Go: The Quiet Power of Moving On
One day, you stop writing about it.
You stop replaying the conversations in your head, stop wonder

Tom Robinson
Jul 19, 20252 min read
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