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Is Your Ex Even Aware of Their Unhealed Dismissive Avoidant Attachment Style?
Dismissive avoidants often aren't aware

Tom Robinson
23 hours ago4 min read


When You Realise the Avoidant was More Damaged Than You!
When You Realise the Avoidant Was More Damaged Than You
There’s a moment — not sudden, but gradual — when it finally dawns on you: the person who pushed you away, who made you feel like you were “too much,” too emotional, too needy, too intense — they were the one more damaged than you.
I used to think I was the problem. I was the empath — deeply emotional, hungry for connection, desperate to love and be loved in return. And he was the mirror opposite: emotionally unavailab

Tom Robinson
4 days ago3 min read


From Bipolar to Breakthrough: How I Found Healing Through Self-Discovery
From Bipolar to Breakthrough: How I Found Healing Through Self-Discovery

Tom Robinson
7 days ago3 min read


Letting Go of Past Relationships- how to move forward!
Being tossed aside, breadcrumbed, and emotionally thrown around by someone you truly loved—but who was emotionally unavailable—is a kind of

Tom Robinson
Jul 22 min read


How to Recognise a Dismissive Avoidant Partner - And Leave Before They Emotionally Discard you
How to Recognize a Dismissive-Avoidant — And Leave Before They Emotionally Discard You
If you’ve ever felt confused, neglected, or suddenly

Tom Robinson
Jul 13 min read


When the Dismissive Avoidant Realises too Late! ⏰
When the Dismissive Avoidant Realises Too Late
One of the most painful things about loving a dismissive avoidant is that they often don’t e

Tom Robinson
Jun 302 min read


Dismissive Avoidants: unhealed Blocking and Ghosting
When someone avoidant ghosts you or blocks you, it says everything about them — and nothing about you.
Let’s be honest: disappearing, going

Tom Robinson
Jun 291 min read


Romantic Relationships: A Final Farewell to the Avoidant
Letting Go of the Avoidant: A Goodbye That Sets Me Free
The avoidant discards you in silence—cold, sudden, often without warning. And just

Tom Robinson
Jun 262 min read


Letting Go of the “Freaking Out” Unhealed
At some point, you stop romanticizing the cycle. You understand your own patterns — the anxious pull, the over-functioning, the deep need to

Tom Robinson
Jun 242 min read


Why They Discard the Right One And End Up Resentful
At first, the avoidant feels in control.
They pull away from intensity, convincing themselves that emotional chaos equals danger. So when t

Tom Robinson
Jun 162 min read


The Laughter in detachment 😂
The avoidant ex and the laughter of letting go

Tom Robinson
Jun 151 min read


Thank You, Avoidant Ex - You Taught Me All I Needed to Know
The anxious wins the heartbreak race

Tom Robinson
Jun 112 min read


The Silence of the Avoidant Ex is all the Closure You Need
If they’ve never written to explain, to apologise, to give you closure—then that is your closure. Let that sink in. If someone can...

Tom Robinson
Jun 102 min read


The Gift of the Anxious Partner
To Have Seen the Avoidant for Who They Truly Are
To have understood someone better than they understand themselves.
To have identified

Tom Robinson
Jun 92 min read


The Quiet Bliss of Letting Go 😘
The Quiet Bliss of Letting Go
There is a moment — a distinct, quiet turning point — when suffering softens into understanding. When pain, o

Tom Robinson
Jun 82 min read


Is Romantic Love the Cause of “Mental Illness”?
What if love is the real cause of depression?
I’ve known too many beautiful, sensitive people who took their own lives.
All of them were c

Tom Robinson
Jun 73 min read


Letting Go of Love and Surrendering to Trust
Letting Go and Surrendering to Trust: A Journey of Healing
There was a time when life felt like a relentless emotional storm—waves of hope

Tom Robinson
Jun 53 min read


Dismissive Avoidant Ex? The Truth Behind the Mask 👻
The dismissive avoidant wears a convincing mask. At first, they seem composed, independent, emotionally "above it all." But underneath that

Tom Robinson
Jun 22 min read


The Anxious Partner Wins in the End
The Anxious Wins in the End
They always say the anxious one feels too much, holds on too tightly, loves too deeply. And maybe that’

Tom Robinson
May 312 min read


When the Anxious and Avoidant collide ❤️🩹
When the Anxious Meets the Avoidant: The Journey of Soulmates Through Healing and Synchronicity
The most beautiful outcome isn’t always the

Tom Robinson
May 262 min read
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