At the end of the day, it doesn’t matter how much money you’ve got in your bank account, how many houses you own, how many cars you drive, or how many designer clothes hang in your wardrobe. It doesn’t matter how many children, holidays, or diamonds you collect. Without love — the real kind — you have nothing. And that’s the truth the dismissive avoidant can never escape. They are, quite possibly, the hardest people in the world to understand — and even harder to heal from. T

🖤 The Dismissive Avoidant Who Married “Nice” The dismissive avoidant finally settled down. They found someone “nice.” Someone who doesn’t

Full peace and letting go come when you’ve walked through the fire for so long that you come out the other side — different. Calmer. At peace. And finally, you can forgive. You’ve hurt for years, maybe even decades, knowing that what you had was real love — the kind that comes once in a lifetime. You were prepared to do anything for it, because deep down you knew that connection was rare, sacred, and real. You couldn’t believe they could just let that go. But now, through t

The key is to understand that they need therapy - it was never you - it was them. Let go. Forgive yourself, forgive them - they never realised what was wrong with them and they lost the chance of real love when they had it. They lost you. Embrace new passions, be proud of yourself for loving so deeply, allow them to fall away. You’re not a match anymore - you’ve grown and they’ve stayed stuck in avoidance, hiding behind partners they don’t love and curated lives that mean not

They’ve got everything — except love. We all know them. The picture-perfect couples with the “dream life.” The house. The cars. The careers

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It Wasn’t Bad Timing — It Was Avoidance They tell themselves it was bad timing. Life was complicated, they weren’t ready, things just didn’

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For years, I admired certain people in my life because they seemed so  strong. They always looked on the bright side, never seemed fazed,...

They Will Use You to Get Over You Being caught in the cycle of loving a dismissive avoidant is like living in constant whiplash. Just when

The Avoidant Secretly Envies You If you’ve ever loved someone avoidant, you know the ache. They pull away just when you’re ready to lean in, they run when things get real, they behave as if intimacy is a trap. But here’s the truth they’ll never say out loud: the avoidant secretly envies you. Why? Because you have what they don’t. You have the courage to love openly, fully, and without fear. You’re willing to risk your heart for something real. They can’t. They’re terrified

There’s a particular kind of heartbreak that doesn’t just shatter you once — it lingers, gnaws, and leaves scars that can take years to heal. It’s the devastation of loving someone with a dismissive-avoidant attachment style. I know this pain firsthand. At first, everything feels incredible. The chemistry is undeniable, the intimacy electric, the connection intoxicating. But as soon as real vulnerability and closeness are required, they vanish. Not fully gone, though — that

The truth about avoidants is that they cannot handle accountability. They run from it, deflect it, twist it, anything but face the reality o

Why You Don’t Want Them Back If your dismissive-avoidant ex came back, what would stop them from running again the moment things got close?

The Avoidant’s Regret The avoidant doesn’t just walk away from love — they push it away. When someone comes along who could have been a rea

When Dismissive Avoidants Choose Safety Over Love Dismissive avoidants often don’t choose the person they truly love. They choose the one w

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