Dismissive avoidants often aren't aware

When You Realise the Avoidant Was More Damaged Than You There’s a moment — not sudden, but gradual — when it finally dawns on you: the person who pushed you away, who made you feel like you were “too much,” too emotional, too needy, too intense — they were the one more damaged than you. I used to think I was the problem. I was the empath — deeply emotional, hungry for connection, desperate to love and be loved in return. And he was the mirror opposite: emotionally unavailab

From Bipolar to Breakthrough: How I Found Healing Through Self-Discovery

Being tossed aside, breadcrumbed, and emotionally thrown around by someone you truly loved—but who was emotionally unavailable—is a kind of

How to Recognize a Dismissive-Avoidant — And Leave Before They Emotionally Discard You If you’ve ever felt confused, neglected, or suddenly

When the Dismissive Avoidant Realises Too Late One of the most painful things about loving a dismissive avoidant is that they often don’t e

When someone avoidant ghosts you or blocks you, it says everything about them — and nothing about you. Let’s be honest: disappearing, going

Letting Go of the Avoidant: A Goodbye That Sets Me Free The avoidant discards you in silence—cold, sudden, often without warning. And just

At some point, you stop romanticizing the cycle. You understand your own patterns — the anxious pull, the over-functioning, the deep need to

At first, the avoidant feels in control. They pull away from intensity, convincing themselves that emotional chaos equals danger. So when t

The avoidant ex and the laughter of letting go

The anxious wins the heartbreak race

If they’ve never written to explain, to apologise, to give you closure—then that is your closure. Let that sink in. If someone can...

To Have Seen the Avoidant for Who They Truly Are To have understood someone better than they understand themselves. To have identified

The Quiet Bliss of Letting Go There is a moment — a distinct, quiet turning point — when suffering softens into understanding. When pain, o

What if love is the real cause of depression? I’ve known too many beautiful, sensitive people who took their own lives. All of them were c

Letting Go and Surrendering to Trust: A Journey of Healing There was a time when life felt like a relentless emotional storm—waves of hope

The dismissive avoidant wears a convincing mask. At first, they seem composed, independent, emotionally "above it all." But underneath that

The Anxious Wins in the End They always say the anxious one feels too much, holds on too tightly, loves too deeply. And maybe that’

When the Anxious Meets the Avoidant: The Journey of Soulmates Through Healing and Synchronicity The most beautiful outcome isn’t always the