There’s a quiet moment that comes after the pain. Not during the chaos, not while you’re begging for clarity or trying to make sense of the sudden distance—but long after. It’s the moment when you’ve finally let go. You’ve done the work. You’ve sat in the fire. You’ve grieved deeply. You’ve replayed every conversation, every almost, every hope you had for what could have been. And eventually, you reach a place of understanding: they weren’t capable of holding real love—not

Why It’s So Hard to Get Over Your Ex (Especially the Avoidant One) If you’re struggling to get over your ex, you’re not weak. You’re not broken. And you’re definitely not imagining how brutal it feels. They didn’t give you closure. They didn’t explain. They didn’t apologise. They didn’t let you ask questions. They just pulled away. One minute things felt good—maybe even great—and the next they were cold, distant, gone. Then, just to twist the knife, you see them on Instag

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I hear it in close relationships all the time. The constant references to the ex. The one they ran from. The one who “freaked them out.” T

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Imagine your ex’s pain years on

The festive season has a way of making everything feel softer. The lights, the music, the nostalgia — and suddenly you’re holding your phone

A Letter to the Dismissive Avoidant Who Ran From Love You ran from love. Not because it wasn’t real, but because it was. Your nervous syst

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Silence stretches. The avoidant stares at the floor. Avoidant: What… what have I done? Their voice cracks. Therapist: You spent your whole life trying to hide from yourself. The avoidant’s face collapses. The anger drains. The armor finally gives way. They sob. And sob. And sob. The therapist quietly reaches over, hands them a tissue. Therapist: You ran from love. You ran from truth. You ran from pain you never learned how to hold. The avoidant can barely breathe now.

THE LETTER YOU DESERVE FROM YOUR AVOIDANT EX (that you will never receive)

Dismissive avoidants don’t listen

The Illusion Shatters: Letting Go of the Ex You Thought You Knew

They’ve got everything — except love. We all know them. The picture-perfect couples with the “dream life.” The house. The cars. The careers

The Dismissive Avoidant Love Story: Two Possible Endings, Both a Disaster

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