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The Laughter in detachment 😂
The avoidant ex and the laughter of letting go

Tom Robinson
1 day ago1 min read
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Thank You, Avoidant Ex - You Taught Me All I Needed to Know
The anxious wins the heartbreak race

Tom Robinson
6 days ago2 min read
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The Silence of the Avoidant Ex is all the Closure You Need
If they’ve never written to explain, to apologise, to give you closure—then that is your closure. Let that sink in. If someone can...

Tom Robinson
7 days ago2 min read
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The Gift of the Anxious Partner
To Have Seen the Avoidant for Who They Truly Are
To have understood someone better than they understand themselves.
To have identified

Tom Robinson
Jun 92 min read
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The Quiet Bliss of Letting Go 😘
The Quiet Bliss of Letting Go
There is a moment — a distinct, quiet turning point — when suffering softens into understanding. When pain, o

Tom Robinson
Jun 82 min read
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Is Romantic Love the Cause of “Mental Illness”?
What if love is the real cause of depression?
I’ve known too many beautiful, sensitive people who took their own lives.
All of them were c

Tom Robinson
Jun 73 min read
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Letting Go of Love and Surrendering to Trust
Letting Go and Surrendering to Trust: A Journey of Healing
There was a time when life felt like a relentless emotional storm—waves of hope

Tom Robinson
Jun 53 min read
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Dismissive Avoidant Ex? The Truth Behind the Mask 👻
The dismissive avoidant wears a convincing mask. At first, they seem composed, independent, emotionally "above it all." But underneath that

Tom Robinson
Jun 22 min read
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When the Anxious and Avoidant collide ❤️🩹
When the Anxious Meets the Avoidant: The Journey of Soulmates Through Healing and Synchronicity
The most beautiful outcome isn’t always the

Tom Robinson
May 262 min read
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The More They Love You, The Faster They Run 🏃♂️
The More a Dismissive Avoidant Loves You, the Faster They Run
It’s one of the most painful relationship experiences: when someone you care

Tom Robinson
May 242 min read
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Letting Go of the Avoidant Who Feared Intimacy
Choosing Yourself: Healing Anxious Attachment & Letting Go of the Avoidant Who Feared Intimacy
There’s something deeply painful about lovin

Tom Robinson
May 212 min read
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From Anxious to Free: My Healing Journey ❤️🩹
Dismissive avoidant 👋

Tom Robinson
May 132 min read
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Why Anxious Attachers Often Suffer in Silence (And How Healing Truly Begins
Dismissive avoidant ex partners need therapy

Tom Robinson
May 112 min read
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Crying in Therapy Isn’t Weakness — It’s Healing for the Mind, Body and Soul
Crying in Therapy Isn’t Weakness — It’s Healing for the Mind, Body and Soul

Tom Robinson
May 82 min read
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Healing the nervous system and completing from trauma
I’m doing really well healing my attachment wounds and finally seeing how my dismissive avoidant ex triggered such deep anxiety in me....

Tom Robinson
Apr 281 min read
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Healing from the Avoidant Dismissive
Healing from an Avoidant Dismissive: My Journey I had to take my site down for a while to focus on myself. From the very start of this...

Tom Robinson
Feb 242 min read
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Limerence - how to heal a fractured heart
When I read Dr L's book Living with Limerence it was so jaw-droppingly revealing that I read the entire book in one sitting.

Tom Robinson
Jun 21, 20244 min read
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Limerence and bipolar disorder
I'm just going to quickly note this down so that it's documented in case anyone ever asks me about this... I've been thinking about...

Tom Robinson
Oct 12, 20232 min read
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Thus Spake Zarathustra
Now that I have traversed hell multiple times, suffered brutally, and come out of the other side, I realise that I understand things on a...

Tom Robinson
Sep 30, 20222 min read
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Epicurus and the 'real world'
What if I told you that there had never been anything wrong with me but that in fact the thing that was wrong was the very construct of...

Tom Robinson
Sep 26, 20225 min read
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