Send the Closure Text — And Shut That Door for Good Healing changes everything. When you’re truly healed, you realize you have nothing lef

It’s a good job I’m mentally strong.” No — it’s a good job you’re emotionally numb. That’s not strength. That’s suppression. And suppression

Healed, Unbothered and Utterly Over It: The Day You Outgrew Your Avoidant Ex

How to Respond When a Dismissive-Avoidant Ex Sends a Breadcrumb Message I’m over my dismissive-avoidant ex now, but for anyone still in the

⸻ Why the Dismissive Avoidant Doesn’t Reflect, Change, or Apologise After Pulling Away If you’ve ever been close to someone with a dismis

Letting Go: The Quiet Power of Moving On One day, you stop writing about it. You stop replaying the conversations in your head, stop wonder

At first, they seem cool, independent, charming, maybe even mysterious. You think you’ve found someone confident and self-sufficient. But slowly, the mask slips — and you start seeing the pattern.

It’s not the kind of safety that comes from genuine closeness and vulnerability. It’s the safety of distance. Of control. Of keeping people at arm’s length behind emotional walls so thick that not even they can fully access what’s inside.

The Moment You See the Truth About the Avoidant Who Discarded You There comes a point in your healing journ

Dismissive avoidants often aren't aware

Being tossed aside, breadcrumbed, and emotionally thrown around by someone you truly loved—but who was emotionally unavailable—is a kind of

How to Recognize a Dismissive-Avoidant — And Leave Before They Emotionally Discard You If you’ve ever felt confused, neglected, or suddenly

When the Dismissive Avoidant Realises Too Late One of the most painful things about loving a dismissive avoidant is that they often don’t e

When someone avoidant ghosts you or blocks you, it says everything about them — and nothing about you. Let’s be honest: disappearing, going

Letting Go of the Avoidant: A Goodbye That Sets Me Free The avoidant discards you in silence—cold, sudden, often without warning. And just

At some point, you stop romanticizing the cycle. You understand your own patterns — the anxious pull, the over-functioning, the deep need to

The avoidant ex and the laughter of letting go

The anxious wins the heartbreak race

If they’ve never written to explain, to apologise, to give you closure—then that is your closure. Let that sink in. If someone can...

To Have Seen the Avoidant for Who They Truly Are To have understood someone better than they understand themselves. To have identified