If you have loved an avoidant deeply, you already know this truth. No amount of explaining, patience, reassurance, or self abandonment will make them look inward. The harder you try, the more they retreat.

When an avoidant blocks you, it’s not because they don’t care. It’s because they do. They block you because they love you and they don’t kn

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There is a particular kind of grief that comes from loving an avoidant partner. Not the explosive kind. The quiet kind. The kind that makes

I hear it in close relationships all the time. The constant references to the ex. The one they ran from. The one who “freaked them out.” T

your ex is an actor who can't do real love

The truth about avoidants is that they cannot handle accountability. They run from it, deflect it, twist it, anything but face the reality o

When Dismissive Avoidants Choose Safety Over Love Dismissive avoidants often don’t choose the person they truly love. They choose the one w

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Send the Closure Text — And Shut That Door for Good Healing changes everything. When you’re truly healed, you realize you have nothing lef

It’s a good job I’m mentally strong.” No — it’s a good job you’re emotionally numb. That’s not strength. That’s suppression. And suppression

How to Respond When a Dismissive-Avoidant Ex Sends a Breadcrumb Message I’m over my dismissive-avoidant ex now, but for anyone still in the

Letting Go: The Quiet Power of Moving On One day, you stop writing about it. You stop replaying the conversations in your head, stop wonder

At first, they seem cool, independent, charming, maybe even mysterious. You think you’ve found someone confident and self-sufficient. But slowly, the mask slips — and you start seeing the pattern.

It’s not the kind of safety that comes from genuine closeness and vulnerability. It’s the safety of distance. Of control. Of keeping people at arm’s length behind emotional walls so thick that not even they can fully access what’s inside.