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Why Your Ex Freaked Out, Blocked and/or Ghosted You 👻
When an avoidant blocks you, it’s not because they don’t care.
It’s because they do.
They block you because they love you and they don’t kn
Tom Robinson
Jan 42 min read
Your Avoidant Ex: The Great Escape (spoiler; you can’t outrun yourself.) 😆
Dismissive avoidant core wound of shame. Your ex and healing
Tom Robinson
Jan 33 min read
Your Avoidant Ex: Letting Go and Dating Again!
Dismissive avoidant ex and dating again
Tom Robinson
Jan 23 min read
Your Ex: Why They Privately Resent Their Chosen Partner.
There is a particular kind of grief that comes from loving an avoidant partner.
Not the explosive kind.
The quiet kind.
The kind that makes
Tom Robinson
Jan 13 min read
Your Avoidant Ex: Timing WAS NOT the problem!!
I hear it in close relationships all the time.
The constant references to the ex.
The one they ran from.
The one who “freaked them out.”
T
Tom Robinson
Dec 29, 20252 min read
Your Ex: The Lie of The Curated Life
Dismissive avoidants in relationships
Tom Robinson
Dec 28, 20252 min read
How Do You Know When You’ve Finally Processed What Happened With Your Avoidant Ex?
How Do You Know When You’ve Finally Processed What Happened With Your Avoidant Ex?
Tom Robinson
Dec 27, 20252 min read
Your Ex: The Letter You Write (but don’t bother to send)
A Letter to the Dismissive Avoidant Who Ran From Love
You ran from love.
Not because it wasn’t real,
but because it was.
Your nervous syst
Tom Robinson
Dec 23, 20252 min read
Your Ex: The Unhealed Dismissive Avoidant and the Deadly Disease of Busyness 😆
The Deadly Disease of “Being Busy”
There is a deadly disease running through relationships, business, and modern life.
It’s called being bu
Tom Robinson
Dec 22, 20252 min read
Your Avoidant Ex: Why It’s Pointless Calling Them Out!
Dismissive avoidants don’t listen
Tom Robinson
Dec 8, 20252 min read
The Dismissive Avoidant Love Story: Two Possible Endings, Both a Disaster!
The Dismissive Avoidant Love Story: Two Possible Endings, Both a Disaster
Tom Robinson
Oct 23, 20254 min read
They Love You, But They Can’t Meet You: The Dismissive Avoidant Nightmare
They Love You, But They Can’t Meet You: The Dismissive Avoidant Nightmare
Tom Robinson
Oct 7, 20252 min read
The Avoidant Fails at The One Thing that Means Everything- LOVE.
The truth about avoidants is that they cannot handle accountability. They run from it, deflect it, twist it, anything but face the reality o
Tom Robinson
Sep 22, 20252 min read
Why You Don’t Want Them Back
Why You Don’t Want Them Back
If your dismissive-avoidant ex came back, what would stop them from running again the moment things got close?
Tom Robinson
Sep 17, 20251 min read
The Avoidant’s Regret
The Avoidant’s Regret
The avoidant doesn’t just walk away from love — they push it away. When someone comes along who could have been a rea
Tom Robinson
Sep 15, 20251 min read
How to Finally Get Over Your Dismissive-Avoidant Ex (And Why They’re the One Who Lost).
How to Finally Get Over Your Dismissive-Avoidant Ex (And Why They’re the One Who Lost
Tom Robinson
Sep 9, 20253 min read
Dismissive Avoidants: Yes, They Love You — But They’re Too Cowardly to Admit It!
Dismissive Avoidants: Yeah, They Love You — But They’re Too Cowardly to Admit It
Tom Robinson
Aug 26, 20252 min read
Send the Closure Text - And Shut That Door for Good!
Send the Closure Text — And Shut That Door for Good
Healing changes everything.
When you’re truly healed, you realize you have nothing lef
Tom Robinson
Aug 21, 20252 min read
Classic DA comment - “It’s a Good Job I’m Mentally Strong” 🙄
It’s a good job I’m mentally strong.”
No — it’s a good job you’re emotionally numb. That’s not strength. That’s suppression. And suppression
Tom Robinson
Aug 6, 20252 min read
Healed, Unbothered and Utterly Over It: The Day You Outgrew Your Avoidant Ex
Healed, Unbothered and Utterly Over It: The Day You Outgrew Your Avoidant Ex
Tom Robinson
Jul 30, 20252 min read
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