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Why You Don’t Want Them Back
Why You Don’t Want Them Back
If your dismissive-avoidant ex came back, what would stop them from running again the moment things got close?

Tom Robinson
Sep 17, 20251 min read


The Avoidant’s Regret
The Avoidant’s Regret
The avoidant doesn’t just walk away from love — they push it away. When someone comes along who could have been a rea

Tom Robinson
Sep 15, 20251 min read


When Dismissive Avoidants Choose Safety Over REAL Love
When Dismissive Avoidants Choose Safety Over Love
Dismissive avoidants often don’t choose the person they truly love. They choose the one w

Tom Robinson
Sep 14, 20252 min read


How to Finally Get Over Your Dismissive-Avoidant Ex (And Why They’re the One Who Lost).
How to Finally Get Over Your Dismissive-Avoidant Ex (And Why They’re the One Who Lost

Tom Robinson
Sep 9, 20253 min read


Does My Dismissive Avoidant Ex Think of Me?
Does My Dismissive Avoidant Ex Think of Me?

Tom Robinson
Sep 5, 20252 min read


Love Means Different Things to Different Attachment Styles
Love Means Different Things to Different Attachment Styles

Tom Robinson
Sep 4, 20251 min read


When a Dismissive-Avoidant Chooses Safety Over Love
When a Dismissive-Avoidant Chooses Safety Over Love

Tom Robinson
Sep 3, 20252 min read


Why You Should Never Take Advice From a Dismissive Avoidant‼️
Why You Should Never Take Advice From a Dismissive Avoidant
We all know them. They walk among us, looking perfectly put together — calm, co

Tom Robinson
Sep 1, 20252 min read


When the Avoidant Blocks or Deletes You: What It Really Means!
When the Avoidant Blocks or Deletes You: What It Really Means

Tom Robinson
Aug 28, 20252 min read


Avoidance Isn’t Strength — It’s Cowardice!
While the anxious partner is clawing for understanding, desperate to communicate, aching to heal and repair—what’s the avoidant doing? Running. Dodging. Pretending.

Tom Robinson
Aug 27, 20252 min read


Dismissive Avoidants: Yes, They Love You — But They’re Too Cowardly to Admit It!
Dismissive Avoidants: Yeah, They Love You — But They’re Too Cowardly to Admit It

Tom Robinson
Aug 26, 20252 min read


The Tragic Loop of the Dismissive Avoidant Ex
The Tragic Loop of the Dismissive Avoidant: Why Loving Them Feels Like Madness
If you’ve ever fallen for a dismissive avoidant, you’ll under

Tom Robinson
Aug 25, 20252 min read


Classic DA comment - “It’s a Good Job I’m Mentally Strong” 🙄
It’s a good job I’m mentally strong.”
No — it’s a good job you’re emotionally numb. That’s not strength. That’s suppression. And suppression

Tom Robinson
Aug 6, 20252 min read


Healed, Unbothered and Utterly Over It: The Day You Outgrew Your Avoidant Ex
Healed, Unbothered and Utterly Over It: The Day You Outgrew Your Avoidant Ex

Tom Robinson
Jul 30, 20252 min read


How to Respond When a Dismissive Avoidant Ex Sends a Breadcrumb Message…
How to Respond When a Dismissive-Avoidant Ex Sends a Breadcrumb Message
I’m over my dismissive-avoidant ex now, but for anyone still in the

Tom Robinson
Jul 29, 20252 min read


How to Let Go of an Unhealed Dismissive Avoidant Ex
Letting Go: The Quiet Power of Moving On
One day, you stop writing about it.
You stop replaying the conversations in your head, stop wonder

Tom Robinson
Jul 19, 20252 min read


The Moment You See the Truth About the Avoidant who “Freaked Out” and discarded You.
The Moment You See the Truth About the Avoidant Who Discarded You
There comes a point in your healing journ

Tom Robinson
Jul 13, 20253 min read


Is Your Ex Even Aware of Their Unhealed Dismissive Avoidant Attachment Style?
Dismissive avoidants often aren't aware

Tom Robinson
Jul 9, 20254 min read


Letting Go of Past Relationships- how to move forward!
Being tossed aside, breadcrumbed, and emotionally thrown around by someone you truly loved—but who was emotionally unavailable—is a kind of

Tom Robinson
Jul 2, 20252 min read


How to Recognise a Dismissive Avoidant Partner - And Leave Before They Emotionally Discard you
How to Recognize a Dismissive-Avoidant — And Leave Before They Emotionally Discard You
If you’ve ever felt confused, neglected, or suddenly

Tom Robinson
Jul 1, 20253 min read
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