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Avoidant Ghosting is all the Closure you Need
In romantic relationships, avoidants often draw you in just enough to keep the connection alive—then withdraw the moment you ask for somet

Tom Robinson
May 6, 20251 min read


The Quiet Power of Letting Go
Letting go isn't a single moment. It's not one final conversation or one dramatic goodbye. It's a process—slow, subtle, and often...

Tom Robinson
May 5, 20252 min read


Healing the nervous system and completing from trauma
I’m doing really well healing my attachment wounds and finally seeing how my dismissive avoidant ex triggered such deep anxiety in me....

Tom Robinson
Apr 28, 20251 min read


Dismissive Avoidant Ex? How to break free - for GOOD!
There comes a moment when you just say sod it —not out of anger, but from a place of clarity. When you’ve been involved with a dismissive...

Tom Robinson
Apr 9, 20252 min read


How to Heal Anxious Attachment: Reclaiming the Self
Anxious attachment

Tom Robinson
Apr 7, 20252 min read


Letting go of the Avoidant Ex and healing my attachment wounds - the root to true healing
I’ve truly begun to heal my attachment style and free myself from the grip of my dismissive avoidant ex

Tom Robinson
Mar 29, 20253 min read


Getting over an Avoidant Ex: why they chose safety
Since avoidants fear their own feelings they will subconsciously choose safety over real romantic love

Tom Robinson
Mar 28, 20254 min read


Escaping the Dismissive Avoidant Ex - how to heal from a bipolar diagnosis
A DA partner does not break up with you in the way you expect. There are no words, no real closure. AND that for an emotionally intelligent

Tom Robinson
Mar 27, 20254 min read


Long-Term Relationship with a Dismissive Avoidant (And Why It Hurts Both People)
Dismissive avoidants often don't choose the person who lights them up or stirs something deep inside them. In fact, they usually reject that

Tom Robinson
Mar 21, 20254 min read


Taking the Knife Out of My Heart: Healing Beyond the Diagnosis
Dismissive avoidants reject the one who gets closest, not because of that person’s flaws, but because they cannot reciprocate emotionally

Tom Robinson
Mar 19, 20253 min read


Midlife Reflection: The key to moving forward
Midlife has a way of sneaking up on you. One day, you're simply going through the motions, and the next, you're confronted with an...

Tom Robinson
Mar 5, 20253 min read


Romantic partners, the dismissive avoidant; why they 'freak out', and sabotage the right relationship
If you’ve ever loved someone with a dismissive-avoidant attachment style , you know the pain of watching them sabotage something truly...

Tom Robinson
Mar 3, 20252 min read


Dismissive Avoidants: Trading Love for Safety, Ending Up with Regret
The dismissive-avoidant attachment style is a paradox. On one hand, they crave love and connection like anyone else. On the other,...

Tom Robinson
Mar 3, 20253 min read


The Avoidant Dismissive ex and the Extended Pain from Breadcrumbing
Love should be a place of warmth, connection, and mutual respect. But for those entangled with an avoidant-dismissive partner, love can...

Tom Robinson
Mar 1, 20254 min read
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