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Why They Discard the Right One And End Up Resentful
At first, the avoidant feels in control.
They pull away from intensity, convincing themselves that emotional chaos equals danger. So when t

Tom Robinson
Jun 16, 20252 min read
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The Laughter in detachment š
The avoidant ex and the laughter of letting go

Tom Robinson
Jun 15, 20251 min read
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Thank You, Avoidant Ex - You Taught Me All I Needed to Know
The anxious wins the heartbreak race

Tom Robinson
Jun 11, 20252 min read
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The Silence of the Avoidant Ex is all the Closure You Need
If theyāve never written to explain, to apologise, to give you closureāthen that is your closure. Let that sink in. If someone can...

Tom Robinson
Jun 10, 20252 min read
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The Gift of the Anxious Partner
To Have Seen the Avoidant for Who They Truly Are
To have understood someone better than they understand themselves.
To have identified

Tom Robinson
Jun 9, 20252 min read
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The Quiet Bliss of Letting Go š
The Quiet Bliss of Letting Go
There is a moment ā a distinct, quiet turning point ā when suffering softens into understanding. When pain, o

Tom Robinson
Jun 8, 20252 min read
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Is Romantic Love the Cause of āMental Illnessā?
What if love is the real cause of depression?
Iāve known too many beautiful, sensitive people who took their own lives.
All of them were c

Tom Robinson
Jun 7, 20253 min read
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Letting Go of Love and Surrendering to Trust
Letting Go and Surrendering to Trust: A Journey of Healing
There was a time when life felt like a relentless emotional stormāwaves of hope

Tom Robinson
Jun 5, 20253 min read
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Dismissive Avoidant Ex? The Truth Behind the Mask š»
The dismissive avoidant wears a convincing mask. At first, they seem composed, independent, emotionally "above it all." But underneath that

Tom Robinson
Jun 2, 20252 min read
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The Anxious Partner Wins in the End
The Anxious Wins in the End
They always say the anxious one feels too much, holds on too tightly, loves too deeply. And maybe thatā

Tom Robinson
May 31, 20252 min read
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When the Anxious and Avoidant collide ā¤ļøāš©¹
When the Anxious Meets the Avoidant: The Journey of Soulmates Through Healing and Synchronicity
The most beautiful outcome isnāt always the

Tom Robinson
May 26, 20252 min read
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The More They Love You, The Faster They Run šāāļø
The More a Dismissive Avoidant Loves You, the Faster They Run
Itās one of the most painful relationship experiences: when someone you care

Tom Robinson
May 24, 20252 min read
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Letting Go of the Avoidant Who Feared Intimacy
Choosing Yourself: Healing Anxious Attachment & Letting Go of the Avoidant Who Feared Intimacy
Thereās something deeply painful about lovin

Tom Robinson
May 21, 20252 min read
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From Anxious to Free: My Healing Journey ā¤ļøāš©¹
Dismissive avoidant š

Tom Robinson
May 13, 20252 min read
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Why Anxious Attachers Often Suffer in Silence (And How Healing Truly Begins
Dismissive avoidant ex partners need therapy

Tom Robinson
May 11, 20252 min read
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Crying in Therapy Isnāt Weakness ā Itās Healing for the Mind, Body and Soul
Crying in Therapy Isnāt Weakness ā Itās Healing for the Mind, Body and Soul

Tom Robinson
May 8, 20252 min read
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Avoidant Ghosting is all the Closure you Need
In romantic relationships, avoidants often draw you in just enough to keep the connection aliveāthen withdraw the moment you ask for somet

Tom Robinson
May 6, 20251 min read
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The Quiet Power of Letting Go
Letting go isn't a single moment. It's not one final conversation or one dramatic goodbye. It's a processāslow, subtle, and often...

Tom Robinson
May 5, 20252 min read
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Healing the nervous system and completing from trauma
Iām doing really well healing my attachment wounds and finally seeing how my dismissive avoidant ex triggered such deep anxiety in me....

Tom Robinson
Apr 28, 20251 min read
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The (almost) Final Post
This will be the last post I ever write on this blog. Thereās only one thing left to say: healing is Ā possible. Escaping the grip of...

Tom Robinson
Apr 15, 20252 min read
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