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The Anxious Partner Wins in the End
The Anxious Wins in the End
They always say the anxious one feels too much, holds on too tightly, loves too deeply. And maybe thatâ

Tom Robinson
May 31, 20252 min read
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When the Anxious and Avoidant collide â¤ď¸âđŠš
When the Anxious Meets the Avoidant: The Journey of Soulmates Through Healing and Synchronicity
The most beautiful outcome isnât always the

Tom Robinson
May 26, 20252 min read
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The More They Love You, The Faster They Run đââď¸
The More a Dismissive Avoidant Loves You, the Faster They Run
Itâs one of the most painful relationship experiences: when someone you care

Tom Robinson
May 24, 20252 min read
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From Anxious to Free: My Healing Journey â¤ď¸âđŠš
Dismissive avoidant đ

Tom Robinson
May 13, 20252 min read
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Why Anxious Attachers Often Suffer in Silence (And How Healing Truly Begins
Dismissive avoidant ex partners need therapy

Tom Robinson
May 11, 20252 min read
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Crying in Therapy Isnât Weakness â Itâs Healing for the Mind, Body and Soul
Crying in Therapy Isnât Weakness â Itâs Healing for the Mind, Body and Soul

Tom Robinson
May 8, 20252 min read
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Avoidant Ghosting is all the Closure you Need
In romantic relationships, avoidants often draw you in just enough to keep the connection aliveâthen withdraw the moment you ask for somet

Tom Robinson
May 6, 20251 min read
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Healing the nervous system and completing from trauma
Iâm doing really well healing my attachment wounds and finally seeing how my dismissive avoidant ex triggered such deep anxiety in me....

Tom Robinson
Apr 28, 20251 min read
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Dismissive Avoidant Ex? How to break free - for GOOD!
There comes a moment when you just say sod it ânot out of anger, but from a place of clarity. When youâve been involved with a dismissive...

Tom Robinson
Apr 9, 20252 min read
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How to Heal Anxious Attachment: Reclaiming the Self
Anxious attachment

Tom Robinson
Apr 7, 20252 min read
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How to let go and free yourself from a Dismissive Avoidant ex
Letting go of an avoidant ex is one of the most confusing, painful things you can go throughâbecause it wasn't all bad.

Tom Robinson
Apr 4, 20253 min read
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Letting go of the Avoidant Ex and healing my attachment wounds - the root to true healing
Iâve truly begun to heal my attachment style and free myself from the grip of my dismissive avoidant ex

Tom Robinson
Mar 29, 20253 min read
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Getting over an Avoidant Ex: why they chose safety
Since avoidants fear their own feelings they will subconsciously choose safety over real romantic love

Tom Robinson
Mar 28, 20254 min read
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Escaping the Dismissive Avoidant Ex - how to heal from a bipolar diagnosis
A DA partner does not break up with you in the way you expect. There are no words, no real closure. AND that for an emotionally intelligent

Tom Robinson
Mar 27, 20254 min read
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Romantic devastation: Finding Closure from a Dismissive-Avoidant Breakup
Let me be clearâthe dismissive-avoidant provides no closure. I spent years ruminating, trying to make sense of why he pulled the rug out fro

Tom Robinson
Mar 24, 20254 min read
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Ex-partners and mental health: Why dismissive avoidants end up miserable
Ex-partners and mental health: Why dismissive avoidants end up miserable

Tom Robinson
Mar 23, 20253 min read
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Taking the Knife Out of My Heart: Healing Beyond the Diagnosis
Dismissive avoidants reject the one who gets closest, not because of that personâs flaws, but because they cannot reciprocate emotionally

Tom Robinson
Mar 19, 20253 min read
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Dismissive avoidant ex: The root canal of suffering
The following video explains what happens with the dismissive avoidant âwhen they fall in love with someone deeply, truly⌠and still...

Tom Robinson
Mar 16, 20252 min read
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Dismissive Avoidants: The Best Actors, The Worst Kind of Hurt
I now understand he was (and still is) a dismissive avoidant, and with that knowledge, so much of his behavior finally makes sense.

Tom Robinson
Mar 15, 20254 min read
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A heart must be tried by pain!
As usual poetry has been very healing. This one by Adelaide Anne Proctor is particularly relevant. Enjoy!

Tom Robinson
Jun 9, 20242 min read
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