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Dismissive Avoidants: unhealed Blocking and Ghosting
When someone avoidant ghosts you or blocks you, it says everything about them — and nothing about you.
Let’s be honest: disappearing, going

Tom Robinson
Jun 29, 20251 min read


The Gift of the Anxious Partner
To Have Seen the Avoidant for Who They Truly Are
To have understood someone better than they understand themselves.
To have identified

Tom Robinson
Jun 9, 20252 min read


Dismissive Avoidant Ex? The Truth Behind the Mask 👻
The dismissive avoidant wears a convincing mask. At first, they seem composed, independent, emotionally "above it all." But underneath that

Tom Robinson
Jun 2, 20252 min read


The Anxious Partner Wins in the End
The Anxious Wins in the End
They always say the anxious one feels too much, holds on too tightly, loves too deeply. And maybe that’

Tom Robinson
May 31, 20252 min read


When the Anxious and Avoidant collide ❤️🩹
When the Anxious Meets the Avoidant: The Journey of Soulmates Through Healing and Synchronicity
The most beautiful outcome isn’t always the

Tom Robinson
May 26, 20252 min read


The More They Love You, The Faster They Run 🏃♂️
The More a Dismissive Avoidant Loves You, the Faster They Run
It’s one of the most painful relationship experiences: when someone you care

Tom Robinson
May 24, 20252 min read


Letting Go of the Avoidant Who Feared Intimacy
Choosing Yourself: Healing Anxious Attachment & Letting Go of the Avoidant Who Feared Intimacy
There’s something deeply painful about lovin

Tom Robinson
May 21, 20252 min read


From Anxious to Free: My Healing Journey ❤️🩹
Dismissive avoidant 👋

Tom Robinson
May 13, 20252 min read


Why Anxious Attachers Often Suffer in Silence (And How Healing Truly Begins
Dismissive avoidant ex partners need therapy

Tom Robinson
May 11, 20252 min read


Crying in Therapy Isn’t Weakness — It’s Healing for the Mind, Body and Soul
Crying in Therapy Isn’t Weakness — It’s Healing for the Mind, Body and Soul

Tom Robinson
May 8, 20252 min read


Healing the nervous system and completing from trauma
I’m doing really well healing my attachment wounds and finally seeing how my dismissive avoidant ex triggered such deep anxiety in me....

Tom Robinson
Apr 28, 20251 min read


Healing from the Avoidant Dismissive
Healing from an Avoidant Dismissive: My Journey I had to take my site down for a while to focus on myself. From the very start of this...

Tom Robinson
Feb 24, 20252 min read


OCD, misdiagnosis, and a cocktail of drugs. One of my loyal readers shares her story
I haven't written in a few weeks because I have been busy writing something else, something important that will be published in the near...

Tom Robinson
Oct 30, 20225 min read


Dealing with anxiety and maintaining optimal mental health and well-being
I feel like I’ve got writers block this morning. There’s a post that I really want to get out but I’m not sure how to tackle it and I...

Tom Robinson
Apr 21, 20224 min read


The myth of eight hours: why I will NEVER medicate myself for sleep ever again!
I haven't been able to write much over the last few weeks since I've been so busy with other things. I seem to spend all of my time being...

Tom Robinson
Apr 11, 20225 min read


YouTube video: how to combat severe depression & suicidal thoughts - please share, it can SAVE LIVES
I wanted to write a quick post this morning to alert my loyal readers to another YouTube video that I have been working on recently....

Tom Robinson
Apr 1, 20222 min read


To bleed or not to bleed?! #postyourpill: a contentious campaign but a very important conversation!
This morning I'm reposting something I wrote on social media yesterday in conjunction with the #postyourpill campaign which is currently...

Tom Robinson
Dec 6, 20213 min read


NLP lessons 6 & 7 a recap of 'Anchoring' as we head towards the end of the course!
I have been recapping my NLP course on the blog over the last few weeks as I study to become a practitioner, but unfortunately, I have...

Tom Robinson
Oct 25, 20214 min read


NHS wasting up to £568M a year on pointless pills: please take caution but be warned of withdrawals!
I wanted to add this post this morning since it covers a topic which I have been trying to highlight over recent weeks; namely, the...

Tom Robinson
Oct 20, 20212 min read


The mind/body connection: unresolved trauma, shingles, and the process of healing and integration!
I have hardly written anything on here recently, as I have been struggling to overcome the rather unpleasant symptoms of the shingles...

Tom Robinson
Oct 15, 20214 min read
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