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Dismissive Avoidant Ex? The Truth Behind the Mask 👻
The dismissive avoidant wears a convincing mask. At first, they seem composed, independent, emotionally "above it all." But underneath that

Tom Robinson
Jun 22 min read


The Anxious Partner Wins in the End
The Anxious Wins in the End
They always say the anxious one feels too much, holds on too tightly, loves too deeply. And maybe that’

Tom Robinson
May 312 min read


When the Anxious and Avoidant collide ❤️🩹
When the Anxious Meets the Avoidant: The Journey of Soulmates Through Healing and Synchronicity
The most beautiful outcome isn’t always the

Tom Robinson
May 262 min read


The More They Love You, The Faster They Run 🏃♂️
The More a Dismissive Avoidant Loves You, the Faster They Run
It’s one of the most painful relationship experiences: when someone you care

Tom Robinson
May 242 min read


Letting Go of the Avoidant Who Feared Intimacy
Choosing Yourself: Healing Anxious Attachment & Letting Go of the Avoidant Who Feared Intimacy
There’s something deeply painful about lovin

Tom Robinson
May 212 min read


From Anxious to Free: My Healing Journey ❤️🩹
Dismissive avoidant 👋

Tom Robinson
May 132 min read


Why Anxious Attachers Often Suffer in Silence (And How Healing Truly Begins
Dismissive avoidant ex partners need therapy

Tom Robinson
May 112 min read


Crying in Therapy Isn’t Weakness — It’s Healing for the Mind, Body and Soul
Crying in Therapy Isn’t Weakness — It’s Healing for the Mind, Body and Soul

Tom Robinson
May 82 min read


Avoidant Ghosting is all the Closure you Need
In romantic relationships, avoidants often draw you in just enough to keep the connection alive—then withdraw the moment you ask for somet

Tom Robinson
May 61 min read


The Quiet Power of Letting Go
Letting go isn't a single moment. It's not one final conversation or one dramatic goodbye. It's a process—slow, subtle, and often...

Tom Robinson
May 52 min read


Healing the nervous system and completing from trauma
I’m doing really well healing my attachment wounds and finally seeing how my dismissive avoidant ex triggered such deep anxiety in me....

Tom Robinson
Apr 281 min read


Getting over an Avoidant Ex: why they chose safety
Since avoidants fear their own feelings they will subconsciously choose safety over real romantic love

Tom Robinson
Mar 284 min read


Long-Term Relationship with a Dismissive Avoidant (And Why It Hurts Both People)
Dismissive avoidants often don't choose the person who lights them up or stirs something deep inside them. In fact, they usually reject that

Tom Robinson
Mar 214 min read


Reclaiming sleep post dismissive avoidant discard
Seventeen years ago, my sleep was decimated. Not by a physical ailment, not by an external crisis, but by a romantic discard at the hands of

Tom Robinson
Feb 264 min read


Healing from the Dismissive Avoidant
Breaking Free from Dismissive Avoidant Abuse Going back into the past to process the core wound of my suffering—being ruthlessly...

Tom Robinson
Feb 253 min read


Healing from the Avoidant Dismissive
Healing from an Avoidant Dismissive: My Journey I had to take my site down for a while to focus on myself. From the very start of this...

Tom Robinson
Feb 242 min read


Purity of Heart in practice: The Good in truth!
Without reading an enormous amount of philosophy then understanding how I've got to this point will be virtually impossible... But......

Tom Robinson
Jul 18, 20244 min read


Through Hardships to the Stars... and beyond!
It's now ten days since Poems of Awakening; Through Hardships to the Stars by Edwin Charles (my pseudonym) went live on Amazon in...

Tom Robinson
Feb 23, 20232 min read


Epicurus and the 'real world'
What if I told you that there had never been anything wrong with me but that in fact the thing that was wrong was the very construct of...

Tom Robinson
Sep 26, 20225 min read


No more ego and no more 'real world' BS
I haven't written anything on here in quite a while because I've been so consumed with trying to find an agent/publisher for my...

Tom Robinson
Sep 16, 20223 min read
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