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The Moment You See the Truth About the Avoidant who “Freaked Out” and discarded You.
The Moment You See the Truth About the Avoidant Who Discarded You
There comes a point in your healing journ

Tom Robinson
Jul 13, 20253 min read


Is Your Ex Even Aware of Their Unhealed Dismissive Avoidant Attachment Style?
Dismissive avoidants often aren't aware

Tom Robinson
Jul 9, 20254 min read


When You Realise the Avoidant was More Damaged Than You!
When You Realise the Avoidant Was More Damaged Than You
There’s a moment — not sudden, but gradual — when it finally dawns on you: the person who pushed you away, who made you feel like you were “too much,” too emotional, too needy, too intense — they were the one more damaged than you.
I used to think I was the problem. I was the empath — deeply emotional, hungry for connection, desperate to love and be loved in return. And he was the mirror opposite: emotionally unavailab

Tom Robinson
Jul 6, 20253 min read


The Laughter in detachment 😂
The avoidant ex and the laughter of letting go

Tom Robinson
Jun 15, 20251 min read


The Silence of the Avoidant Ex is all the Closure You Need
If they’ve never written to explain, to apologise, to give you closure—then that is your closure. Let that sink in. If someone can...

Tom Robinson
Jun 10, 20252 min read


The Gift of the Anxious Partner
To Have Seen the Avoidant for Who They Truly Are
To have understood someone better than they understand themselves.
To have identified

Tom Robinson
Jun 9, 20252 min read


The Quiet Bliss of Letting Go 😘
The Quiet Bliss of Letting Go
There is a moment — a distinct, quiet turning point — when suffering softens into understanding. When pain, o

Tom Robinson
Jun 8, 20252 min read


Dismissive Avoidant Ex? The Truth Behind the Mask 👻
The dismissive avoidant wears a convincing mask. At first, they seem composed, independent, emotionally "above it all." But underneath that

Tom Robinson
Jun 2, 20252 min read


The Anxious Partner Wins in the End
The Anxious Wins in the End
They always say the anxious one feels too much, holds on too tightly, loves too deeply. And maybe that’

Tom Robinson
May 31, 20252 min read


When the Anxious and Avoidant collide ❤️🩹
When the Anxious Meets the Avoidant: The Journey of Soulmates Through Healing and Synchronicity
The most beautiful outcome isn’t always the

Tom Robinson
May 26, 20252 min read


The More They Love You, The Faster They Run 🏃♂️
The More a Dismissive Avoidant Loves You, the Faster They Run
It’s one of the most painful relationship experiences: when someone you care

Tom Robinson
May 24, 20252 min read


Letting Go of the Avoidant Who Feared Intimacy
Choosing Yourself: Healing Anxious Attachment & Letting Go of the Avoidant Who Feared Intimacy
There’s something deeply painful about lovin

Tom Robinson
May 21, 20252 min read


From Anxious to Free: My Healing Journey ❤️🩹
Dismissive avoidant 👋

Tom Robinson
May 13, 20252 min read


Why Anxious Attachers Often Suffer in Silence (And How Healing Truly Begins
Dismissive avoidant ex partners need therapy

Tom Robinson
May 11, 20252 min read


Crying in Therapy Isn’t Weakness — It’s Healing for the Mind, Body and Soul
Crying in Therapy Isn’t Weakness — It’s Healing for the Mind, Body and Soul

Tom Robinson
May 8, 20252 min read


Avoidant Ghosting is all the Closure you Need
In romantic relationships, avoidants often draw you in just enough to keep the connection alive—then withdraw the moment you ask for somet

Tom Robinson
May 6, 20251 min read


The Quiet Power of Letting Go
Letting go isn't a single moment. It's not one final conversation or one dramatic goodbye. It's a process—slow, subtle, and often...

Tom Robinson
May 5, 20252 min read


Healing the nervous system and completing from trauma
I’m doing really well healing my attachment wounds and finally seeing how my dismissive avoidant ex triggered such deep anxiety in me....

Tom Robinson
Apr 28, 20251 min read


Getting over an Avoidant Ex: why they chose safety
Since avoidants fear their own feelings they will subconsciously choose safety over real romantic love

Tom Robinson
Mar 28, 20254 min read


Long-Term Relationship with a Dismissive Avoidant (And Why It Hurts Both People)
Dismissive avoidants often don't choose the person who lights them up or stirs something deep inside them. In fact, they usually reject that

Tom Robinson
Mar 21, 20254 min read
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