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The More They Love You, The Faster They Run 🏃♂️
The More a Dismissive Avoidant Loves You, the Faster They Run
It’s one of the most painful relationship experiences: when someone you care

Tom Robinson
May 24, 20252 min read


Letting Go of the Avoidant Who Feared Intimacy
Choosing Yourself: Healing Anxious Attachment & Letting Go of the Avoidant Who Feared Intimacy
There’s something deeply painful about lovin

Tom Robinson
May 21, 20252 min read


From Anxious to Free: My Healing Journey ❤️🩹
Dismissive avoidant 👋

Tom Robinson
May 13, 20252 min read


Why Anxious Attachers Often Suffer in Silence (And How Healing Truly Begins
Dismissive avoidant ex partners need therapy

Tom Robinson
May 11, 20252 min read


Crying in Therapy Isn’t Weakness — It’s Healing for the Mind, Body and Soul
Crying in Therapy Isn’t Weakness — It’s Healing for the Mind, Body and Soul

Tom Robinson
May 8, 20252 min read


Dismissive Avoidant Ex? How to break free - for GOOD!
There comes a moment when you just say sod it —not out of anger, but from a place of clarity. When you’ve been involved with a dismissive...

Tom Robinson
Apr 9, 20252 min read


How to Heal Anxious Attachment: Reclaiming the Self
Anxious attachment

Tom Robinson
Apr 7, 20252 min read


How to let go and free yourself from a Dismissive Avoidant ex
Letting go of an avoidant ex is one of the most confusing, painful things you can go through—because it wasn't all bad.

Tom Robinson
Apr 4, 20253 min read


Letting go of the Avoidant Ex and healing my attachment wounds - the root to true healing
I’ve truly begun to heal my attachment style and free myself from the grip of my dismissive avoidant ex

Tom Robinson
Mar 29, 20253 min read


Getting over an Avoidant Ex: why they chose safety
Since avoidants fear their own feelings they will subconsciously choose safety over real romantic love

Tom Robinson
Mar 28, 20254 min read


Escaping the Dismissive Avoidant Ex - how to heal from a bipolar diagnosis
A DA partner does not break up with you in the way you expect. There are no words, no real closure. AND that for an emotionally intelligent

Tom Robinson
Mar 27, 20254 min read


Romantic devastation: Finding Closure from a Dismissive-Avoidant Breakup
Let me be clear—the dismissive-avoidant provides no closure. I spent years ruminating, trying to make sense of why he pulled the rug out fro

Tom Robinson
Mar 24, 20254 min read


Ex-partners and mental health: Why dismissive avoidants end up miserable
Ex-partners and mental health: Why dismissive avoidants end up miserable

Tom Robinson
Mar 23, 20253 min read


Taking the Knife Out of My Heart: Healing Beyond the Diagnosis
Dismissive avoidants reject the one who gets closest, not because of that person’s flaws, but because they cannot reciprocate emotionally

Tom Robinson
Mar 19, 20253 min read


Dismissive avoidant ex: The root canal of suffering
The following video explains what happens with the dismissive avoidant —when they fall in love with someone deeply, truly… and still...

Tom Robinson
Mar 16, 20252 min read


Dismissive Avoidants: The Best Actors, The Worst Kind of Hurt
I now understand he was (and still is) a dismissive avoidant, and with that knowledge, so much of his behavior finally makes sense.

Tom Robinson
Mar 15, 20254 min read


Healing from the Avoidant Dismissive
Healing from an Avoidant Dismissive: My Journey I had to take my site down for a while to focus on myself. From the very start of this...

Tom Robinson
Feb 24, 20252 min read


Limerence, agents, GP's, death and unspeakable pain
The limerent experience thrives in this liminal space between praise and rejection, hope and despair. Such interactions are devastating

Tom Robinson
Nov 16, 20242 min read


Harnessing the power of bipolar - creative genius!
"There is an internal landscape, a geography of the soul; we search for its outlines all our lives." It was this sentence that...

Tom Robinson
Oct 6, 20243 min read


Limerence - how to heal a fractured heart
When I read Dr L's book Living with Limerence it was so jaw-droppingly revealing that I read the entire book in one sitting.

Tom Robinson
Jun 21, 20244 min read
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