Since avoidants fear their own feelings they will subconsciously choose safety over real romantic love

A DA partner does not break up with you in the way you expect. There are no words, no real closure. AND that for an emotionally intelligent

Let me be clear—the dismissive-avoidant provides no closure. I spent years ruminating, trying to make sense of why he pulled the rug out fro

Ex-partners and mental health: Why dismissive avoidants end up miserable

Dismissive avoidants often don't choose the person who lights them up or stirs something deep inside them. In fact, they usually reject that

Dismissive avoidants reject the one who gets closest, not because of that person’s flaws, but because they cannot reciprocate emotionally

The following video explains what happens with the dismissive avoidant —when they fall in love with someone deeply, truly… and still...

I now understand he was (and still is) a dismissive avoidant, and with that knowledge, so much of his behavior finally makes sense.

Midlife has a way of sneaking up on you. One day, you're simply going through the motions, and the next, you're confronted with an...

If you’ve ever loved someone with a dismissive-avoidant attachment style , you know the pain of watching them sabotage something truly...

The dismissive-avoidant attachment style is a paradox. On one hand, they crave love and connection like anyone else. On the other,...

If you’ve ever been in a relationship—romantic or familial—with a dismissive avoidant , you’ve probably felt the gut-wrenching pain of...

Love should be a place of warmth, connection, and mutual respect. But for those entangled with an avoidant-dismissive partner, love can...

For the longest time, I thought I was battling an illness (a bipolar disorder diagnosed by psychiatrists) - the relentless exhaustion, the f

Seventeen years ago, my sleep was decimated. Not by a physical ailment, not by an external crisis, but by a romantic discard at the hands of

Breaking Free from Dismissive Avoidant Abuse Going back into the past to process the core wound of my suffering—being ruthlessly...

Healing from an Avoidant Dismissive: My Journey I had to take my site down for a while to focus on myself. From the very start of this...