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Why Your Ex Freaked Out, Blocked and/or Ghosted You đ»
When an avoidant blocks you, itâs not because they donât care.
Itâs because they do.
They block you because they love you and they donât kn

Tom Robinson
Jan 42 min read
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Your Avoidant Ex: The Great Escape (spoiler; you canât outrun yourself.) đ
Dismissive avoidant core wound of shame. Your ex and healing

Tom Robinson
Jan 33 min read
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Your Avoidant Ex: Letting Go and Dating Again!
Dismissive avoidant ex and dating again

Tom Robinson
Jan 23 min read
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Your Ex: Why They Privately Resent Their Chosen Partner.
There is a particular kind of grief that comes from loving an avoidant partner.
Not the explosive kind.
The quiet kind.
The kind that makes

Tom Robinson
Jan 13 min read
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Your Avoidant Ex: Timing WAS NOT the problem!!
I hear it in close relationships all the time.
The constant references to the ex.
The one they ran from.
The one who âfreaked them out.â
T

Tom Robinson
Dec 29, 20252 min read
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Your Ex: The Lie of The Curated Life
Dismissive avoidants in relationships

Tom Robinson
Dec 28, 20252 min read
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How Do You Know When Youâve Finally Processed What Happened With Your Avoidant Ex?
How Do You Know When Youâve Finally Processed What Happened With Your Avoidant Ex?

Tom Robinson
Dec 27, 20252 min read
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Your Ex: The Quiet Exhaustion of Avoidance
Imagine your exâs pain years on

Tom Robinson
Dec 26, 20253 min read
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Why You DONâT Send your Ex A Christmas Message!
The festive season has a way of making everything feel softer. The lights, the music, the nostalgia â and suddenly youâre holding your phone

Tom Robinson
Dec 24, 20252 min read
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Your Ex: The Letter You Write (but donât bother to send)
A Letter to the Dismissive Avoidant Who Ran From Love
You ran from love.
Not because it wasnât real,
but because it was.
Your nervous syst

Tom Robinson
Dec 23, 20252 min read
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Your Ex: The Unhealed Dismissive Avoidant and the Deadly Disease of Busyness đ
The Deadly Disease of âBeing Busyâ
There is a deadly disease running through relationships, business, and modern life.
Itâs called being bu

Tom Robinson
Dec 22, 20252 min read
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The Tragedy for Your Avoidant Exâs Partner
The Slow Unraveling: What Happens to the Partner of a Dismissive-Avoidant Over Time
Dismissive-avoidant patterns donât usually explode; the

Tom Robinson
Dec 9, 20253 min read
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Your Avoidant Ex: Why Itâs Pointless Calling Them Out!
Dismissive avoidants donât listen

Tom Robinson
Dec 8, 20252 min read
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đ€ Marrying âniceââŠ. Why itâs a disaster!
đ€ The Dismissive Avoidant Who Married âNiceâ
The dismissive avoidant finally settled down.
They found someone ânice.â Someone who doesnât

Tom Robinson
Nov 5, 20252 min read
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Theyâve got everything - except love đ€Šââïž
Theyâve got everything â except love.
We all know them.
The picture-perfect couples with the âdream life.â
The house. The cars. The careers

Tom Robinson
Oct 29, 20252 min read
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The Dismissive Avoidant Love Story: Two Possible Endings, Both a Disaster!
The Dismissive Avoidant Love Story: Two Possible Endings, Both a Disaster

Tom Robinson
Oct 23, 20254 min read
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It wasnât Bad Timing - It Was Their Avoidance
It Wasnât Bad Timing â It Was Avoidance
They tell themselves it was bad timing. Life was complicated, they werenât ready, things just didnâ

Tom Robinson
Oct 19, 20252 min read
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They Love You, But They Canât Meet You: The Dismissive Avoidant Nightmare
They Love You, But They Canât Meet You: The Dismissive Avoidant Nightmare

Tom Robinson
Oct 7, 20252 min read
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Why Your Ex Will Use You to Get Over You
They Will Use You to Get Over You
Being caught in the cycle of loving a dismissive avoidant is like living in constant whiplash. Just when

Tom Robinson
Oct 1, 20252 min read
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The Avoidant Fails at The One Thing that Means Everything- LOVE.
The truth about avoidants is that they cannot handle accountability. They run from it, deflect it, twist it, anything but face the reality o

Tom Robinson
Sep 22, 20252 min read
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