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Your Ex: The Letter You Write (but don’t bother to send)
A Letter to the Dismissive Avoidant Who Ran From Love
You ran from love.
Not because it wasn’t real,
but because it was.
Your nervous syst
Tom Robinson
Dec 23, 20252 min read
Your Ex: The Unhealed Dismissive Avoidant and the Deadly Disease of Busyness 😆
The Deadly Disease of “Being Busy”
There is a deadly disease running through relationships, business, and modern life.
It’s called being bu
Tom Robinson
Dec 22, 20252 min read
The Tragedy for Your Avoidant Ex’s Partner
The Slow Unraveling: What Happens to the Partner of a Dismissive-Avoidant Over Time
Dismissive-avoidant patterns don’t usually explode; the
Tom Robinson
Dec 9, 20253 min read
Your Avoidant Ex: Why It’s Pointless Calling Them Out!
Dismissive avoidants don’t listen
Tom Robinson
Dec 8, 20252 min read
🖤 Marrying “nice”…. Why it’s a disaster!
🖤 The Dismissive Avoidant Who Married “Nice”
The dismissive avoidant finally settled down.
They found someone “nice.” Someone who doesn’t
Tom Robinson
Nov 5, 20252 min read
They’ve got everything - except love 🤦♂️
They’ve got everything — except love.
We all know them.
The picture-perfect couples with the “dream life.”
The house. The cars. The careers
Tom Robinson
Oct 29, 20252 min read
The Dismissive Avoidant Love Story: Two Possible Endings, Both a Disaster!
The Dismissive Avoidant Love Story: Two Possible Endings, Both a Disaster
Tom Robinson
Oct 23, 20254 min read
It wasn’t Bad Timing - It Was Their Avoidance
It Wasn’t Bad Timing — It Was Avoidance
They tell themselves it was bad timing. Life was complicated, they weren’t ready, things just didn’
Tom Robinson
Oct 19, 20252 min read
They Love You, But They Can’t Meet You: The Dismissive Avoidant Nightmare
They Love You, But They Can’t Meet You: The Dismissive Avoidant Nightmare
Tom Robinson
Oct 7, 20252 min read
Why Your Ex Will Use You to Get Over You
They Will Use You to Get Over You
Being caught in the cycle of loving a dismissive avoidant is like living in constant whiplash. Just when
Tom Robinson
Oct 1, 20252 min read
The Avoidant Fails at The One Thing that Means Everything- LOVE.
The truth about avoidants is that they cannot handle accountability. They run from it, deflect it, twist it, anything but face the reality o
Tom Robinson
Sep 22, 20252 min read
Why You Don’t Want Them Back
Why You Don’t Want Them Back
If your dismissive-avoidant ex came back, what would stop them from running again the moment things got close?
Tom Robinson
Sep 17, 20251 min read
The Avoidant’s Regret
The Avoidant’s Regret
The avoidant doesn’t just walk away from love — they push it away. When someone comes along who could have been a rea
Tom Robinson
Sep 15, 20251 min read
When Dismissive Avoidants Choose Safety Over REAL Love
When Dismissive Avoidants Choose Safety Over Love
Dismissive avoidants often don’t choose the person they truly love. They choose the one w
Tom Robinson
Sep 14, 20252 min read
How to Finally Get Over Your Dismissive-Avoidant Ex (And Why They’re the One Who Lost).
How to Finally Get Over Your Dismissive-Avoidant Ex (And Why They’re the One Who Lost
Tom Robinson
Sep 9, 20253 min read
Does My Dismissive Avoidant Ex Think of Me?
Does My Dismissive Avoidant Ex Think of Me?
Tom Robinson
Sep 5, 20252 min read
Love Means Different Things to Different Attachment Styles
Love Means Different Things to Different Attachment Styles
Tom Robinson
Sep 4, 20251 min read
When a Dismissive-Avoidant Chooses Safety Over Love
When a Dismissive-Avoidant Chooses Safety Over Love
Tom Robinson
Sep 3, 20252 min read
Why You Should Never Take Advice From a Dismissive Avoidant‼️
Why You Should Never Take Advice From a Dismissive Avoidant
We all know them. They walk among us, looking perfectly put together — calm, co
Tom Robinson
Sep 1, 20252 min read
When the Avoidant Blocks or Deletes You: What It Really Means!
When the Avoidant Blocks or Deletes You: What It Really Means
Tom Robinson
Aug 28, 20252 min read
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