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The More They Love You, The Faster They Run 🏃♂️
The More a Dismissive Avoidant Loves You, the Faster They Run
It’s one of the most painful relationship experiences: when someone you care

Tom Robinson
May 24, 20252 min read


Letting Go of the Avoidant Who Feared Intimacy
Choosing Yourself: Healing Anxious Attachment & Letting Go of the Avoidant Who Feared Intimacy
There’s something deeply painful about lovin

Tom Robinson
May 21, 20252 min read


From Anxious to Free: My Healing Journey ❤️🩹
Dismissive avoidant 👋

Tom Robinson
May 13, 20252 min read


Why Anxious Attachers Often Suffer in Silence (And How Healing Truly Begins
Dismissive avoidant ex partners need therapy

Tom Robinson
May 11, 20252 min read


Crying in Therapy Isn’t Weakness — It’s Healing for the Mind, Body and Soul
Crying in Therapy Isn’t Weakness — It’s Healing for the Mind, Body and Soul

Tom Robinson
May 8, 20252 min read


Avoidant Ghosting is all the Closure you Need
In romantic relationships, avoidants often draw you in just enough to keep the connection alive—then withdraw the moment you ask for somet

Tom Robinson
May 6, 20251 min read


Healing the nervous system and completing from trauma
I’m doing really well healing my attachment wounds and finally seeing how my dismissive avoidant ex triggered such deep anxiety in me....

Tom Robinson
Apr 28, 20251 min read


Dismissive Avoidant Ex? How to break free - for GOOD!
There comes a moment when you just say sod it —not out of anger, but from a place of clarity. When you’ve been involved with a dismissive...

Tom Robinson
Apr 9, 20252 min read


Getting over an Avoidant Ex: why they chose safety
Since avoidants fear their own feelings they will subconsciously choose safety over real romantic love

Tom Robinson
Mar 28, 20254 min read


Limerence, bipolar, and suicide... why has no one made the connection...
I am going to try to explain something succinctly which is virtually impossible to explain and should be something I sit down with a...

Tom Robinson
Mar 11, 20234 min read


OUT NOW! Poems of Awakening; Through Hardships to the Stars!
So... after five years of submissions, editing, writing, re-writing, re-submitting, blogging, being rejected, writing new material, etc,...

Tom Robinson
Feb 12, 20232 min read


OCD, misdiagnosis, and a cocktail of drugs. One of my loyal readers shares her story
I haven't written in a few weeks because I have been busy writing something else, something important that will be published in the near...

Tom Robinson
Oct 30, 20225 min read


How to combat severe depression and suicidal thoughts part 2
Morning all! This is simply a brief note this morning to alert my readers to part 2 of my latest video entitled 'How to Combat Severe...

Tom Robinson
Apr 27, 20222 min read


YouTube video: are relationships with others the root cause of all mental suffering?
I wanted to write a quick post this morning and attach my latest YouTube video which I recorded earlier this week. To be completely...

Tom Robinson
Mar 12, 20223 min read


Going visual! How to support the suicidal person: Dying to Stay Alive's first YouTube video!
As all my regular readers now know (because I bang on about it constantly), this blog is here because I am determined to help others to...

Tom Robinson
Feb 24, 20223 min read


The NIGHTMARE of Christmas for the depressive & what you can do to help them at this time of year
Having spent the large majority of my adult life in suicidal hell, I can confidently say that everything I write on here is accurate. So...

Tom Robinson
Dec 21, 20214 min read


Remembering Le Lion -d'Angers: a bronze medal but a whole world of pain and agony!
18 years ago today ‘Something Funny’ (Ed) was putting his best hoof forward in Le Lion-d’Angers and winning a bronze medal. But what no...

Tom Robinson
Oct 24, 20211 min read


The mind/body connection: unresolved trauma, shingles, and the process of healing and integration!
I have hardly written anything on here recently, as I have been struggling to overcome the rather unpleasant symptoms of the shingles...

Tom Robinson
Oct 15, 20214 min read


Suicide Prevention Month 2021: What to say & what NOT to say to someone on the edge with depression!
This month (September 2021) is Suicide Prevention Month in the U.S, and it is also World Suicide Prevention Day tomorrow (10th September...

Tom Robinson
Sep 9, 20214 min read


Men’s Health Week 2021: the ‘Can Do’ Challenge. Day 1 -Monday: 'Connect'
Today marks the first day of Men’s Health week 2021 which this year runs from the 14-20th of June. I have to admit that I wasn’t even...

Tom Robinson
Jun 14, 20215 min read
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