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🖤 Marrying “nice”…. Why it’s a disaster!
🖤 The Dismissive Avoidant Who Married “Nice”
The dismissive avoidant finally settled down.
They found someone “nice.” Someone who doesn’t

Tom Robinson
Nov 5, 20252 min read


They’ve got everything - except love 🤦♂️
They’ve got everything — except love.
We all know them.
The picture-perfect couples with the “dream life.”
The house. The cars. The careers

Tom Robinson
Oct 29, 20252 min read


The Dismissive Avoidant Love Story: Two Possible Endings, Both a Disaster!
The Dismissive Avoidant Love Story: Two Possible Endings, Both a Disaster

Tom Robinson
Oct 23, 20254 min read


They Love You, But They Can’t Meet You: The Dismissive Avoidant Nightmare
They Love You, But They Can’t Meet You: The Dismissive Avoidant Nightmare

Tom Robinson
Oct 7, 20252 min read


The Illusion of 'Positive People': When Strength Is Really Avoidance
For years, I admired certain people in my life because they seemed so strong. They always looked on the bright side, never seemed fazed,...

Tom Robinson
Oct 3, 20252 min read


Why Your Ex Will Use You to Get Over You
They Will Use You to Get Over You
Being caught in the cycle of loving a dismissive avoidant is like living in constant whiplash. Just when

Tom Robinson
Oct 1, 20252 min read


The Avoidant Fails at The One Thing that Means Everything- LOVE.
The truth about avoidants is that they cannot handle accountability. They run from it, deflect it, twist it, anything but face the reality o

Tom Robinson
Sep 22, 20252 min read


Why You Don’t Want Them Back
Why You Don’t Want Them Back
If your dismissive-avoidant ex came back, what would stop them from running again the moment things got close?

Tom Robinson
Sep 17, 20251 min read


The Avoidant’s Regret
The Avoidant’s Regret
The avoidant doesn’t just walk away from love — they push it away. When someone comes along who could have been a rea

Tom Robinson
Sep 15, 20251 min read


When Dismissive Avoidants Choose Safety Over REAL Love
When Dismissive Avoidants Choose Safety Over Love
Dismissive avoidants often don’t choose the person they truly love. They choose the one w

Tom Robinson
Sep 14, 20252 min read


How to Finally Get Over Your Dismissive-Avoidant Ex (And Why They’re the One Who Lost).
How to Finally Get Over Your Dismissive-Avoidant Ex (And Why They’re the One Who Lost

Tom Robinson
Sep 9, 20253 min read


Does My Dismissive Avoidant Ex Think of Me?
Does My Dismissive Avoidant Ex Think of Me?

Tom Robinson
Sep 5, 20252 min read


Why You Should Never Take Advice From a Dismissive Avoidant‼️
Why You Should Never Take Advice From a Dismissive Avoidant
We all know them. They walk among us, looking perfectly put together — calm, co

Tom Robinson
Sep 1, 20252 min read


Dismissive Avoidants: Yes, They Love You — But They’re Too Cowardly to Admit It!
Dismissive Avoidants: Yeah, They Love You — But They’re Too Cowardly to Admit It

Tom Robinson
Aug 26, 20252 min read


The Tragic Loop of the Dismissive Avoidant Ex
The Tragic Loop of the Dismissive Avoidant: Why Loving Them Feels Like Madness
If you’ve ever fallen for a dismissive avoidant, you’ll under

Tom Robinson
Aug 25, 20252 min read


Send the Closure Text - And Shut That Door for Good!
Send the Closure Text — And Shut That Door for Good
Healing changes everything.
When you’re truly healed, you realize you have nothing lef

Tom Robinson
Aug 21, 20252 min read


Classic DA comment - “It’s a Good Job I’m Mentally Strong” 🙄
It’s a good job I’m mentally strong.”
No — it’s a good job you’re emotionally numb. That’s not strength. That’s suppression. And suppression

Tom Robinson
Aug 6, 20252 min read


Healed, Unbothered and Utterly Over It: The Day You Outgrew Your Avoidant Ex
Healed, Unbothered and Utterly Over It: The Day You Outgrew Your Avoidant Ex

Tom Robinson
Jul 30, 20252 min read


How to Respond When a Dismissive Avoidant Ex Sends a Breadcrumb Message…
How to Respond When a Dismissive-Avoidant Ex Sends a Breadcrumb Message
I’m over my dismissive-avoidant ex now, but for anyone still in the

Tom Robinson
Jul 29, 20252 min read


Why the Dismissive Avoidant Doesn’t Reflect, Change, or Apologise After Pulling Away.
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Why the Dismissive Avoidant Doesn’t Reflect, Change, or Apologise After Pulling Away
If you’ve ever been close to someone with a dismis

Tom Robinson
Jul 22, 20253 min read
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