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Your Avoidant Ex: Letting Go and Dating Again!
Dismissive avoidant ex and dating again

Tom Robinson
Jan 23 min read


Your Ex: Why They Privately Resent Their Chosen Partner.
There is a particular kind of grief that comes from loving an avoidant partner.
Not the explosive kind.
The quiet kind.
The kind that makes

Tom Robinson
Jan 13 min read


Your Avoidant Ex: Timing WAS NOT the problem!!
I hear it in close relationships all the time.
The constant references to the ex.
The one they ran from.
The one who “freaked them out.”
T

Tom Robinson
Dec 29, 20252 min read


Your Ex: The Lie of The Curated Life
Dismissive avoidants in relationships

Tom Robinson
Dec 28, 20252 min read


Your Ex: The Quiet Exhaustion of Avoidance
Imagine your ex’s pain years on

Tom Robinson
Dec 26, 20253 min read


Why You DON’T Send your Ex A Christmas Message!
The festive season has a way of making everything feel softer. The lights, the music, the nostalgia — and suddenly you’re holding your phone

Tom Robinson
Dec 24, 20252 min read


Your Ex: The Letter You Write (but don’t bother to send)
A Letter to the Dismissive Avoidant Who Ran From Love
You ran from love.
Not because it wasn’t real,
but because it was.
Your nervous syst

Tom Robinson
Dec 23, 20252 min read


Your Ex: The Unhealed Dismissive Avoidant and the Deadly Disease of Busyness 😆
The Deadly Disease of “Being Busy”
There is a deadly disease running through relationships, business, and modern life.
It’s called being bu

Tom Robinson
Dec 22, 20252 min read


Avoidant Ex in Therapy (a tragicomedy)
Silence stretches. The avoidant stares at the floor.
Avoidant:
What…
what have I done?
Their voice cracks.
Therapist: You spent your whole life trying to hide from yourself.
The avoidant’s face collapses. The anger drains. The armor finally gives way.
They sob. And sob. And sob.
The therapist quietly reaches over, hands them a tissue.
Therapist: You ran from love.
You ran from truth.
You ran from pain you never learned how to hold.
The avoidant can barely breathe now.

Tom Robinson
Dec 16, 20253 min read


THE LETTER YOU DESERVE FROM YOUR AVOIDANT EX (that you will never receive)
THE LETTER YOU DESERVE FROM YOUR AVOIDANT EX (that you will never receive)

Tom Robinson
Dec 12, 20253 min read


Your Avoidant Ex: Why It’s Pointless Calling Them Out!
Dismissive avoidants don’t listen

Tom Robinson
Dec 8, 20252 min read


Your Ex is An Actor: Letting Go of What You Thought They Were
The Illusion Shatters: Letting Go of the Ex You Thought You Knew

Tom Robinson
Dec 2, 20253 min read


They’ve got everything - except love 🤦♂️
They’ve got everything — except love.
We all know them.
The picture-perfect couples with the “dream life.”
The house. The cars. The careers

Tom Robinson
Oct 29, 20252 min read


The Dismissive Avoidant Love Story: Two Possible Endings, Both a Disaster!
The Dismissive Avoidant Love Story: Two Possible Endings, Both a Disaster

Tom Robinson
Oct 23, 20254 min read


Why Your Ex Will Use You to Get Over You
They Will Use You to Get Over You
Being caught in the cycle of loving a dismissive avoidant is like living in constant whiplash. Just when

Tom Robinson
Oct 1, 20252 min read


The Avoidant Fails at The One Thing that Means Everything- LOVE.
The truth about avoidants is that they cannot handle accountability. They run from it, deflect it, twist it, anything but face the reality o

Tom Robinson
Sep 22, 20252 min read


Why You Don’t Want Them Back
Why You Don’t Want Them Back
If your dismissive-avoidant ex came back, what would stop them from running again the moment things got close?

Tom Robinson
Sep 17, 20251 min read


The Avoidant’s Regret
The Avoidant’s Regret
The avoidant doesn’t just walk away from love — they push it away. When someone comes along who could have been a rea

Tom Robinson
Sep 15, 20251 min read


When Dismissive Avoidants Choose Safety Over REAL Love
When Dismissive Avoidants Choose Safety Over Love
Dismissive avoidants often don’t choose the person they truly love. They choose the one w

Tom Robinson
Sep 14, 20252 min read


How to Finally Get Over Your Dismissive-Avoidant Ex (And Why They’re the One Who Lost).
How to Finally Get Over Your Dismissive-Avoidant Ex (And Why They’re the One Who Lost

Tom Robinson
Sep 9, 20253 min read
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