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When a Dismissive-Avoidant Chooses Safety Over Love
When a Dismissive-Avoidant Chooses Safety Over Love

Tom Robinson
2 days ago2 min read


Why You Should Never Take Advice From a Dismissive Avoidant‼️
Why You Should Never Take Advice From a Dismissive Avoidant
We all know them. They walk among us, looking perfectly put together — calm, co

Tom Robinson
4 days ago2 min read


Dismissive Avoidants: Yes, They Love You — But They’re Too Cowardly to Admit It!
Dismissive Avoidants: Yeah, They Love You — But They’re Too Cowardly to Admit It

Tom Robinson
Aug 262 min read


The Tragic Loop of the Dismissive Avoidant Ex
The Tragic Loop of the Dismissive Avoidant: Why Loving Them Feels Like Madness
If you’ve ever fallen for a dismissive avoidant, you’ll under

Tom Robinson
Aug 252 min read


Send the Closure Text - And Shut That Door for Good!
Send the Closure Text — And Shut That Door for Good
Healing changes everything.
When you’re truly healed, you realize you have nothing lef

Tom Robinson
Aug 212 min read


Classic DA comment - “It’s a Good Job I’m Mentally Strong” 🙄
It’s a good job I’m mentally strong.”
No — it’s a good job you’re emotionally numb. That’s not strength. That’s suppression. And suppression

Tom Robinson
Aug 62 min read


Healed, Unbothered and Utterly Over It: The Day You Outgrew Your Avoidant Ex
Healed, Unbothered and Utterly Over It: The Day You Outgrew Your Avoidant Ex

Tom Robinson
Jul 302 min read


Why the Dismissive Avoidant Doesn’t Reflect, Change, or Apologise After Pulling Away.
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Why the Dismissive Avoidant Doesn’t Reflect, Change, or Apologise After Pulling Away
If you’ve ever been close to someone with a dismis

Tom Robinson
Jul 223 min read


How to Let Go of an Unhealed Dismissive Avoidant Ex
Letting Go: The Quiet Power of Moving On
One day, you stop writing about it.
You stop replaying the conversations in your head, stop wonder

Tom Robinson
Jul 192 min read


Is Your Ex Even Aware of Their Unhealed Dismissive Avoidant Attachment Style?
Dismissive avoidants often aren't aware

Tom Robinson
Jul 94 min read


Letting Go of the “Freaking Out” Unhealed
At some point, you stop romanticizing the cycle. You understand your own patterns — the anxious pull, the over-functioning, the deep need to

Tom Robinson
Jun 242 min read


Why They Discard the Right One And End Up Resentful
At first, the avoidant feels in control.
They pull away from intensity, convincing themselves that emotional chaos equals danger. So when t

Tom Robinson
Jun 162 min read


Thank You, Avoidant Ex - You Taught Me All I Needed to Know
The anxious wins the heartbreak race

Tom Robinson
Jun 112 min read


The Silence of the Avoidant Ex is all the Closure You Need
If they’ve never written to explain, to apologise, to give you closure—then that is your closure. Let that sink in. If someone can...

Tom Robinson
Jun 102 min read


The Quiet Bliss of Letting Go 😘
The Quiet Bliss of Letting Go
There is a moment — a distinct, quiet turning point — when suffering softens into understanding. When pain, o

Tom Robinson
Jun 82 min read


The Anxious Partner Wins in the End
The Anxious Wins in the End
They always say the anxious one feels too much, holds on too tightly, loves too deeply. And maybe that’

Tom Robinson
May 312 min read


When the Anxious and Avoidant collide ❤️🩹
When the Anxious Meets the Avoidant: The Journey of Soulmates Through Healing and Synchronicity
The most beautiful outcome isn’t always the

Tom Robinson
May 262 min read


The More They Love You, The Faster They Run 🏃♂️
The More a Dismissive Avoidant Loves You, the Faster They Run
It’s one of the most painful relationship experiences: when someone you care

Tom Robinson
May 242 min read


Crying in Therapy Isn’t Weakness — It’s Healing for the Mind, Body and Soul
Crying in Therapy Isn’t Weakness — It’s Healing for the Mind, Body and Soul

Tom Robinson
May 82 min read


The Quiet Power of Letting Go
Letting go isn't a single moment. It's not one final conversation or one dramatic goodbye. It's a process—slow, subtle, and often...

Tom Robinson
May 52 min read
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