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Dismissive Avoidant Ex? How to break free - for GOOD!
There comes a moment when you just say sod it —not out of anger, but from a place of clarity. When you’ve been involved with a dismissive...

Tom Robinson
Apr 9, 20252 min read


Getting over an Avoidant Ex: why they chose safety
Since avoidants fear their own feelings they will subconsciously choose safety over real romantic love

Tom Robinson
Mar 28, 20254 min read


Why You’ll Never Get Through to a Dismissive Avoidant—And Why It’s Only Hurting You
If you’ve ever been in a relationship—romantic or familial—with a dismissive avoidant , you’ve probably felt the gut-wrenching pain of...

Tom Robinson
Mar 2, 20252 min read


Breaking Free: How Healing My (and my ex's) Attachment Style Transformed My Sleep and Mental Health
For the longest time, I thought I was battling an illness (a bipolar disorder diagnosed by psychiatrists) - the relentless exhaustion, the f

Tom Robinson
Feb 27, 20253 min read


Limerence, agents, GP's, death and unspeakable pain
The limerent experience thrives in this liminal space between praise and rejection, hope and despair. Such interactions are devastating

Tom Robinson
Nov 16, 20242 min read


Limerence - how to heal a fractured heart
When I read Dr L's book Living with Limerence it was so jaw-droppingly revealing that I read the entire book in one sitting.

Tom Robinson
Jun 21, 20244 min read


Limerence, bipolar, and suicide... why has no one made the connection...
I am going to try to explain something succinctly which is virtually impossible to explain and should be something I sit down with a...

Tom Robinson
Mar 11, 20234 min read


Caroline Flack found heartbreak impossible according to sister Jody
There was a really short article in The Independent a few days ago in which Caroline Flack's sister and mother revealed details about the...

Tom Robinson
Mar 12, 20213 min read
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