Does My Dismissive Avoidant Ex Think of Me?

Love Means Different Things to Different Attachment Styles

When a Dismissive-Avoidant Chooses Safety Over Love

Why You Should Never Take Advice From a Dismissive Avoidant We all know them. They walk among us, looking perfectly put together — calm, co

Healing After Loving a Dismissive Avoidant What is there left to say after you’ve healed from a relationship with a dismissive-avoidant partner—after you finally realize that they were more unhealed than you? Honestly, not much. The pain they cause is indescribable. I carried it with me for decades after mine. For so long, I thought he was independent, strong, untouchable. But the truth was, he wasn’t running from me—he was running from his wounds. He loved me, but he didn’

When the Avoidant Blocks or Deletes You: What It Really Means

Oh, the Dismissive Avoidant… It’s Not Them, It’s You

While the anxious partner is clawing for understanding, desperate to communicate, aching to heal and repair—what’s the avoidant doing? Running. Dodging. Pretending.

Dismissive Avoidants: Yeah, They Love You — But They’re Too Cowardly to Admit It

The Tragic Loop of the Dismissive Avoidant: Why Loving Them Feels Like Madness If you’ve ever fallen for a dismissive avoidant, you’ll under

Calling Out a Dismissive Avoidant: Why You’ll Get Gaslit

Send the Closure Text — And Shut That Door for Good Healing changes everything. When you’re truly healed, you realize you have nothing lef

It’s a good job I’m mentally strong.” No — it’s a good job you’re emotionally numb. That’s not strength. That’s suppression. And suppression

Healed, Unbothered and Utterly Over It: The Day You Outgrew Your Avoidant Ex

How to Respond When a Dismissive-Avoidant Ex Sends a Breadcrumb Message I’m over my dismissive-avoidant ex now, but for anyone still in the

⸻ Why the Dismissive Avoidant Doesn’t Reflect, Change, or Apologise After Pulling Away If you’ve ever been close to someone with a dismis

Letting Go: The Quiet Power of Moving On One day, you stop writing about it. You stop replaying the conversations in your head, stop wonder

At first, they seem cool, independent, charming, maybe even mysterious. You think you’ve found someone confident and self-sufficient. But slowly, the mask slips — and you start seeing the pattern.

It’s not the kind of safety that comes from genuine closeness and vulnerability. It’s the safety of distance. Of control. Of keeping people at arm’s length behind emotional walls so thick that not even they can fully access what’s inside.

The Moment You See the Truth About the Avoidant Who Discarded You There comes a point in your healing journ