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When Dismissive Avoidants Choose Safety Over REAL Love
When Dismissive Avoidants Choose Safety Over Love
Dismissive avoidants often don’t choose the person they truly love. They choose the one w

Tom Robinson
Sep 142 min read


How to Finally Get Over Your Dismissive-Avoidant Ex (And Why They’re the One Who Lost).
How to Finally Get Over Your Dismissive-Avoidant Ex (And Why They’re the One Who Lost

Tom Robinson
Sep 93 min read


How to Forgive and Let Go of a Dismissive Avoidant Who Hurt You
How to Forgive and Let Go of a Dismissive Avoidant Who Hurt You

Tom Robinson
Sep 82 min read


Does My Dismissive Avoidant Ex Think of Me?
Does My Dismissive Avoidant Ex Think of Me?

Tom Robinson
Sep 52 min read


Love Means Different Things to Different Attachment Styles
Love Means Different Things to Different Attachment Styles

Tom Robinson
Sep 41 min read


When a Dismissive-Avoidant Chooses Safety Over Love
When a Dismissive-Avoidant Chooses Safety Over Love

Tom Robinson
Sep 32 min read


Why You Should Never Take Advice From a Dismissive Avoidant‼️
Why You Should Never Take Advice From a Dismissive Avoidant
We all know them. They walk among us, looking perfectly put together — calm, co

Tom Robinson
Sep 12 min read


Healing After Loving a Dismissive Avoidant
Healing After Loving a Dismissive Avoidant
What is there left to say after you’ve healed from a relationship with a dismissive-avoidant partner—after you finally realize that they were more unhealed than you? Honestly, not much.
The pain they cause is indescribable. I carried it with me for decades after mine. For so long, I thought he was independent, strong, untouchable. But the truth was, he wasn’t running from me—he was running from his wounds. He loved me, but he didn’

Tom Robinson
Aug 293 min read


When the Avoidant Blocks or Deletes You: What It Really Means!
When the Avoidant Blocks or Deletes You: What It Really Means

Tom Robinson
Aug 282 min read


Oh, the Dismissive Avoidant… It’s Not Them, It’s You
Oh, the Dismissive Avoidant… It’s Not Them, It’s You

Tom Robinson
Aug 282 min read


Avoidance Isn’t Strength — It’s Cowardice!
While the anxious partner is clawing for understanding, desperate to communicate, aching to heal and repair—what’s the avoidant doing? Running. Dodging. Pretending.

Tom Robinson
Aug 272 min read


Dismissive Avoidants: Yes, They Love You — But They’re Too Cowardly to Admit It!
Dismissive Avoidants: Yeah, They Love You — But They’re Too Cowardly to Admit It

Tom Robinson
Aug 262 min read


The Tragic Loop of the Dismissive Avoidant Ex
The Tragic Loop of the Dismissive Avoidant: Why Loving Them Feels Like Madness
If you’ve ever fallen for a dismissive avoidant, you’ll under

Tom Robinson
Aug 252 min read


Calling Out a Dismissive Avoidant: Why You’ll Get Gaslit!
Calling Out a Dismissive Avoidant: Why You’ll Get Gaslit

Tom Robinson
Aug 222 min read


Send the Closure Text - And Shut That Door for Good!
Send the Closure Text — And Shut That Door for Good
Healing changes everything.
When you’re truly healed, you realize you have nothing lef

Tom Robinson
Aug 212 min read


Classic DA comment - “It’s a Good Job I’m Mentally Strong” 🙄
It’s a good job I’m mentally strong.”
No — it’s a good job you’re emotionally numb. That’s not strength. That’s suppression. And suppression

Tom Robinson
Aug 62 min read


Healed, Unbothered and Utterly Over It: The Day You Outgrew Your Avoidant Ex
Healed, Unbothered and Utterly Over It: The Day You Outgrew Your Avoidant Ex

Tom Robinson
Jul 302 min read


How to Respond When a Dismissive Avoidant Ex Sends a Breadcrumb Message…
How to Respond When a Dismissive-Avoidant Ex Sends a Breadcrumb Message
I’m over my dismissive-avoidant ex now, but for anyone still in the

Tom Robinson
Jul 292 min read


The morning I woke up and Just Didn’t Give a Toss Anymore!
The Morning I Woke Up and Just Didn’t Give a Toss Anymore
You know that feeling when you wake up and realise — you actually don’t care anym

Tom Robinson
Jul 282 min read


Why the Dismissive Avoidant Doesn’t Reflect, Change, or Apologise After Pulling Away.
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Why the Dismissive Avoidant Doesn’t Reflect, Change, or Apologise After Pulling Away
If you’ve ever been close to someone with a dismis

Tom Robinson
Jul 223 min read
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