Dismissive avoidants often aren't aware

When You Realise the Avoidant Was More Damaged Than You There’s a moment — not sudden, but gradual — when it finally dawns on you: the person who pushed you away, who made you feel like you were “too much,” too emotional, too needy, too intense — they were the one more damaged than you. I used to think I was the problem. I was the empath — deeply emotional, hungry for connection, desperate to love and be loved in return. And he was the mirror opposite: emotionally unavailab

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When the Dismissive Avoidant Realises Too Late One of the most painful things about loving a dismissive avoidant is that they often don’t e

When someone avoidant ghosts you or blocks you, it says everything about them — and nothing about you. Let’s be honest: disappearing, going

Letting Go of the Avoidant: A Goodbye That Sets Me Free The avoidant discards you in silence—cold, sudden, often without warning. And just

At some point, you stop romanticizing the cycle. You understand your own patterns — the anxious pull, the over-functioning, the deep need to

At first, the avoidant feels in control. They pull away from intensity, convincing themselves that emotional chaos equals danger. So when t