your ex is an actor who can't do real love

The Apology You Deserve The apology you deserve. I wrote to you once before, and I realise now it wasn’t enough. This is the apology I should have given you a long time ago. My behaviour after I broke your heart—after I panicked and ran from real love—was deeply unfair and, honestly, horrendous. I see that now. I’ve finally gone to therapy, and for the first time I truly understand how much damage I caused you, not just by leaving, but by everything I did afterward. A few

Full peace and letting go come when you’ve walked through the fire for so long that you come out the other side — different. Calmer. At peace. And finally, you can forgive. You’ve hurt for years, maybe even decades, knowing that what you had was real love — the kind that comes once in a lifetime. You were prepared to do anything for it, because deep down you knew that connection was rare, sacred, and real. You couldn’t believe they could just let that go. But now, through t

They Will Use You to Get Over You Being caught in the cycle of loving a dismissive avoidant is like living in constant whiplash. Just when

How to Forgive and Let Go of a Dismissive Avoidant Who Hurt You

Does My Dismissive Avoidant Ex Think of Me?

When You Realise the Avoidant Was More Damaged Than You There’s a moment — not sudden, but gradual — when it finally dawns on you: the person who pushed you away, who made you feel like you were “too much,” too emotional, too needy, too intense — they were the one more damaged than you. I used to think I was the problem. I was the empath — deeply emotional, hungry for connection, desperate to love and be loved in return. And he was the mirror opposite: emotionally unavailab