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Taking the Knife Out of My Heart: Healing Beyond the Diagnosis
Dismissive avoidants reject the one who gets closest, not because of that person’s flaws, but because they cannot reciprocate emotionally

Tom Robinson
Mar 19, 20253 min read


Midlife Reflection: The key to moving forward
Midlife has a way of sneaking up on you. One day, you're simply going through the motions, and the next, you're confronted with an...

Tom Robinson
Mar 5, 20253 min read


Romantic partners, the dismissive avoidant; why they 'freak out', and sabotage the right relationship
If you’ve ever loved someone with a dismissive-avoidant attachment style , you know the pain of watching them sabotage something truly...

Tom Robinson
Mar 3, 20252 min read


Dismissive Avoidants: Trading Love for Safety, Ending Up with Regret
The dismissive-avoidant attachment style is a paradox. On one hand, they crave love and connection like anyone else. On the other,...

Tom Robinson
Mar 3, 20253 min read


The Avoidant Dismissive ex and the Extended Pain from Breadcrumbing
Love should be a place of warmth, connection, and mutual respect. But for those entangled with an avoidant-dismissive partner, love can...

Tom Robinson
Mar 1, 20254 min read
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