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The Dismissive Avoidant Love Story: Two Possible Endings, Both a Disaster!
The Dismissive Avoidant Love Story: Two Possible Endings, Both a Disaster

Tom Robinson
Oct 23, 20254 min read


It wasn’t Bad Timing - It Was Their Avoidance
It Wasn’t Bad Timing — It Was Avoidance
They tell themselves it was bad timing. Life was complicated, they weren’t ready, things just didn’

Tom Robinson
Oct 19, 20252 min read


The Illusion of 'Positive People': When Strength Is Really Avoidance
For years, I admired certain people in my life because they seemed so strong. They always looked on the bright side, never seemed fazed,...

Tom Robinson
Oct 3, 20252 min read


Why Your Ex Will Use You to Get Over You
They Will Use You to Get Over You
Being caught in the cycle of loving a dismissive avoidant is like living in constant whiplash. Just when

Tom Robinson
Oct 1, 20252 min read


The Avoidant Fails at The One Thing that Means Everything- LOVE.
The truth about avoidants is that they cannot handle accountability. They run from it, deflect it, twist it, anything but face the reality o

Tom Robinson
Sep 22, 20252 min read


The Avoidant’s Regret
The Avoidant’s Regret
The avoidant doesn’t just walk away from love — they push it away. When someone comes along who could have been a rea

Tom Robinson
Sep 15, 20251 min read


Love Means Different Things to Different Attachment Styles
Love Means Different Things to Different Attachment Styles

Tom Robinson
Sep 4, 20251 min read


Calling Out a Dismissive Avoidant: Why You’ll Get Gaslit!
Calling Out a Dismissive Avoidant: Why You’ll Get Gaslit

Tom Robinson
Aug 22, 20252 min read


How to Heal Anxious Attachment: Reclaiming the Self
Anxious attachment

Tom Robinson
Apr 7, 20252 min read


Breaking Free: How Healing My (and my ex's) Attachment Style Transformed My Sleep and Mental Health
For the longest time, I thought I was battling an illness (a bipolar disorder diagnosed by psychiatrists) - the relentless exhaustion, the f

Tom Robinson
Feb 27, 20253 min read


Healing from the Dismissive Avoidant
Breaking Free from Dismissive Avoidant Abuse Going back into the past to process the core wound of my suffering—being ruthlessly...

Tom Robinson
Feb 25, 20253 min read


Limerence, agents, GP's, death and unspeakable pain
The limerent experience thrives in this liminal space between praise and rejection, hope and despair. Such interactions are devastating

Tom Robinson
Nov 16, 20242 min read
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