The Avoidant Secretly Envies You If you’ve ever loved someone avoidant, you know the ache. They pull away just when you’re ready to lean in, they run when things get real, they behave as if intimacy is a trap. But here’s the truth they’ll never say out loud: the avoidant secretly envies you. Why? Because you have what they don’t. You have the courage to love openly, fully, and without fear. You’re willing to risk your heart for something real. They can’t. They’re terrified