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The Illusion of 'Positive People': When Strength Is Really Avoidance
For years, I admired certain people in my life because they seemed so  strong. They always looked on the bright side, never seemed fazed,...

Tom Robinson
Oct 32 min read
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Why Your Ex Will Use You to Get Over You
They Will Use You to Get Over You
Being caught in the cycle of loving a dismissive avoidant is like living in constant whiplash. Just when

Tom Robinson
Oct 12 min read
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The Avoidant Fails at The One Thing that Means Everything- LOVE.
The truth about avoidants is that they cannot handle accountability. They run from it, deflect it, twist it, anything but face the reality o

Tom Robinson
Sep 222 min read
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The Avoidant’s Regret
The Avoidant’s Regret
The avoidant doesn’t just walk away from love — they push it away. When someone comes along who could have been a rea

Tom Robinson
Sep 151 min read
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Love Means Different Things to Different Attachment Styles
Love Means Different Things to Different Attachment Styles

Tom Robinson
Sep 41 min read
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Calling Out a Dismissive Avoidant: Why You’ll Get Gaslit!
Calling Out a Dismissive Avoidant: Why You’ll Get Gaslit

Tom Robinson
Aug 222 min read
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How to Heal Anxious Attachment: Reclaiming the Self
Anxious attachment

Tom Robinson
Apr 72 min read
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Breaking Free: How Healing My (and my ex's) Attachment Style Transformed My Sleep and Mental Health
For the longest time, I thought I was battling an illness (a bipolar disorder diagnosed by psychiatrists) - the relentless exhaustion, the f

Tom Robinson
Feb 273 min read
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Healing from the Dismissive Avoidant
Breaking Free from Dismissive Avoidant Abuse Going back into the past to process the core wound of my suffering—being ruthlessly...

Tom Robinson
Feb 253 min read
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Limerence, agents, GP's, death and unspeakable pain
The limerent experience thrives in this liminal space between praise and rejection, hope and despair. Such interactions are devastating

Tom Robinson
Nov 16, 20242 min read
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