The Dismissive-Avoidant Nightmare: When Love Becomes a Performance

🖤 The Dismissive Avoidant Who Married “Nice” The dismissive avoidant finally settled down. They found someone “nice.” Someone who doesn’t

They’ve got everything — except love. We all know them. The picture-perfect couples with the “dream life.” The house. The cars. The careers

The Dismissive Avoidant Love Story: Two Possible Endings, Both a Disaster

It Wasn’t Bad Timing — It Was Avoidance They tell themselves it was bad timing. Life was complicated, they weren’t ready, things just didn’

For years, I admired certain people in my life because they seemed so  strong. They always looked on the bright side, never seemed fazed,...

They Will Use You to Get Over You Being caught in the cycle of loving a dismissive avoidant is like living in constant whiplash. Just when

The truth about avoidants is that they cannot handle accountability. They run from it, deflect it, twist it, anything but face the reality o

The Avoidant’s Regret The avoidant doesn’t just walk away from love — they push it away. When someone comes along who could have been a rea

Love Means Different Things to Different Attachment Styles

Calling Out a Dismissive Avoidant: Why You’ll Get Gaslit

Anxious attachment

For the longest time, I thought I was battling an illness (a bipolar disorder diagnosed by psychiatrists) - the relentless exhaustion, the f

Breaking Free from Dismissive Avoidant Abuse Going back into the past to process the core wound of my suffering—being ruthlessly...

The limerent experience thrives in this liminal space between praise and rejection, hope and despair. Such interactions are devastating