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Why Your Ex Freaked Out, Blocked and/or Ghosted You 👻
When an avoidant blocks you, it’s not because they don’t care.
It’s because they do.
They block you because they love you and they don’t kn

Tom Robinson
Jan 42 min read


Your Avoidant Ex: The Great Escape (spoiler; you can’t outrun yourself.) 😆
Dismissive avoidant core wound of shame. Your ex and healing

Tom Robinson
Jan 33 min read


Your Avoidant Ex: Letting Go and Dating Again!
Dismissive avoidant ex and dating again

Tom Robinson
Jan 23 min read


Your Avoidant Ex: Timing WAS NOT the problem!!
I hear it in close relationships all the time.
The constant references to the ex.
The one they ran from.
The one who “freaked them out.”
T

Tom Robinson
Dec 29, 20252 min read


Your Ex: The Lie of The Curated Life
Dismissive avoidants in relationships

Tom Robinson
Dec 28, 20252 min read


Why You DON’T Send your Ex A Christmas Message!
The festive season has a way of making everything feel softer. The lights, the music, the nostalgia — and suddenly you’re holding your phone

Tom Robinson
Dec 24, 20252 min read


The Tragedy for Your Avoidant Ex’s Partner
The Slow Unraveling: What Happens to the Partner of a Dismissive-Avoidant Over Time
Dismissive-avoidant patterns don’t usually explode; the

Tom Robinson
Dec 9, 20253 min read


Your Avoidant Ex: Why It’s Pointless Calling Them Out!
Dismissive avoidants don’t listen

Tom Robinson
Dec 8, 20252 min read


The Dismissive-Avoidant Nightmare: When Love Becomes a Performance
The Dismissive-Avoidant Nightmare: When Love Becomes a Performance

Tom Robinson
Nov 23, 20252 min read


🖤 Marrying “nice”…. Why it’s a disaster!
🖤 The Dismissive Avoidant Who Married “Nice”
The dismissive avoidant finally settled down.
They found someone “nice.” Someone who doesn’t

Tom Robinson
Nov 5, 20252 min read


They’ve got everything - except love 🤦♂️
They’ve got everything — except love.
We all know them.
The picture-perfect couples with the “dream life.”
The house. The cars. The careers

Tom Robinson
Oct 29, 20252 min read


The Dismissive Avoidant Love Story: Two Possible Endings, Both a Disaster!
The Dismissive Avoidant Love Story: Two Possible Endings, Both a Disaster

Tom Robinson
Oct 23, 20254 min read


It wasn’t Bad Timing - It Was Their Avoidance
It Wasn’t Bad Timing — It Was Avoidance
They tell themselves it was bad timing. Life was complicated, they weren’t ready, things just didn’

Tom Robinson
Oct 19, 20252 min read


The Illusion of 'Positive People': When Strength Is Really Avoidance
For years, I admired certain people in my life because they seemed so strong. They always looked on the bright side, never seemed fazed,...

Tom Robinson
Oct 3, 20252 min read


Why Your Ex Will Use You to Get Over You
They Will Use You to Get Over You
Being caught in the cycle of loving a dismissive avoidant is like living in constant whiplash. Just when

Tom Robinson
Oct 1, 20252 min read


The Avoidant Fails at The One Thing that Means Everything- LOVE.
The truth about avoidants is that they cannot handle accountability. They run from it, deflect it, twist it, anything but face the reality o

Tom Robinson
Sep 22, 20252 min read


The Avoidant’s Regret
The Avoidant’s Regret
The avoidant doesn’t just walk away from love — they push it away. When someone comes along who could have been a rea

Tom Robinson
Sep 15, 20251 min read


Love Means Different Things to Different Attachment Styles
Love Means Different Things to Different Attachment Styles

Tom Robinson
Sep 4, 20251 min read


Calling Out a Dismissive Avoidant: Why You’ll Get Gaslit!
Calling Out a Dismissive Avoidant: Why You’ll Get Gaslit

Tom Robinson
Aug 22, 20252 min read


How to Heal Anxious Attachment: Reclaiming the Self
Anxious attachment

Tom Robinson
Apr 7, 20252 min read
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