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They’ve got everything - except love 🤦♂️
They’ve got everything — except love.
We all know them.
The picture-perfect couples with the “dream life.”
The house. The cars. The careers

Tom Robinson
Oct 292 min read


The Dismissive Avoidant Love Story: Two Possible Endings, Both a Disaster!
The Dismissive Avoidant Love Story: Two Possible Endings, Both a Disaster

Tom Robinson
Oct 234 min read


It wasn’t Bad Timing - It Was Their Avoidance
It Wasn’t Bad Timing — It Was Avoidance
They tell themselves it was bad timing. Life was complicated, they weren’t ready, things just didn’

Tom Robinson
Oct 192 min read


They Love You, But They Can’t Meet You: The Dismissive Avoidant Nightmare
They Love You, But They Can’t Meet You: The Dismissive Avoidant Nightmare

Tom Robinson
Oct 72 min read


The Avoidant Fails at The One Thing that Means Everything- LOVE.
The truth about avoidants is that they cannot handle accountability. They run from it, deflect it, twist it, anything but face the reality o

Tom Robinson
Sep 222 min read


Why You Don’t Want Them Back
Why You Don’t Want Them Back
If your dismissive-avoidant ex came back, what would stop them from running again the moment things got close?

Tom Robinson
Sep 171 min read


The Avoidant’s Regret
The Avoidant’s Regret
The avoidant doesn’t just walk away from love — they push it away. When someone comes along who could have been a rea

Tom Robinson
Sep 151 min read


When Dismissive Avoidants Choose Safety Over REAL Love
When Dismissive Avoidants Choose Safety Over Love
Dismissive avoidants often don’t choose the person they truly love. They choose the one w

Tom Robinson
Sep 142 min read


How to Finally Get Over Your Dismissive-Avoidant Ex (And Why They’re the One Who Lost).
How to Finally Get Over Your Dismissive-Avoidant Ex (And Why They’re the One Who Lost

Tom Robinson
Sep 93 min read


When a Dismissive-Avoidant Chooses Safety Over Love
When a Dismissive-Avoidant Chooses Safety Over Love

Tom Robinson
Sep 32 min read


Why You Should Never Take Advice From a Dismissive Avoidant‼️
Why You Should Never Take Advice From a Dismissive Avoidant
We all know them. They walk among us, looking perfectly put together — calm, co

Tom Robinson
Sep 12 min read


Dismissive Avoidants: Yes, They Love You — But They’re Too Cowardly to Admit It!
Dismissive Avoidants: Yeah, They Love You — But They’re Too Cowardly to Admit It

Tom Robinson
Aug 262 min read


The Tragic Loop of the Dismissive Avoidant Ex
The Tragic Loop of the Dismissive Avoidant: Why Loving Them Feels Like Madness
If you’ve ever fallen for a dismissive avoidant, you’ll under

Tom Robinson
Aug 252 min read


Send the Closure Text - And Shut That Door for Good!
Send the Closure Text — And Shut That Door for Good
Healing changes everything.
When you’re truly healed, you realize you have nothing lef

Tom Robinson
Aug 212 min read


Classic DA comment - “It’s a Good Job I’m Mentally Strong” 🙄
It’s a good job I’m mentally strong.”
No — it’s a good job you’re emotionally numb. That’s not strength. That’s suppression. And suppression

Tom Robinson
Aug 62 min read


Healed, Unbothered and Utterly Over It: The Day You Outgrew Your Avoidant Ex
Healed, Unbothered and Utterly Over It: The Day You Outgrew Your Avoidant Ex

Tom Robinson
Jul 302 min read


How to Respond When a Dismissive Avoidant Ex Sends a Breadcrumb Message…
How to Respond When a Dismissive-Avoidant Ex Sends a Breadcrumb Message
I’m over my dismissive-avoidant ex now, but for anyone still in the

Tom Robinson
Jul 292 min read


Why the Dismissive Avoidant Doesn’t Reflect, Change, or Apologise After Pulling Away.
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Why the Dismissive Avoidant Doesn’t Reflect, Change, or Apologise After Pulling Away
If you’ve ever been close to someone with a dismis

Tom Robinson
Jul 223 min read


How to Let Go of an Unhealed Dismissive Avoidant Ex
Letting Go: The Quiet Power of Moving On
One day, you stop writing about it.
You stop replaying the conversations in your head, stop wonder

Tom Robinson
Jul 192 min read


Is Your Ex Even Aware of Their Unhealed Dismissive Avoidant Attachment Style?
Dismissive avoidants often aren't aware

Tom Robinson
Jul 94 min read
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