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Classic DA comment - “It’s a Good Job I’m Mentally Strong” 🙄
It’s a good job I’m mentally strong.”
No — it’s a good job you’re emotionally numb. That’s not strength. That’s suppression. And suppression

Tom Robinson
Aug 62 min read


Healed, Unbothered and Utterly Over It: The Day You Outgrew Your Avoidant Ex
Healed, Unbothered and Utterly Over It: The Day You Outgrew Your Avoidant Ex

Tom Robinson
Jul 302 min read


How to Respond When a Dismissive Avoidant Ex Sends a Breadcrumb Message…
How to Respond When a Dismissive-Avoidant Ex Sends a Breadcrumb Message
I’m over my dismissive-avoidant ex now, but for anyone still in the

Tom Robinson
Jul 292 min read


How to Let Go of an Unhealed Dismissive Avoidant Ex
Letting Go: The Quiet Power of Moving On
One day, you stop writing about it.
You stop replaying the conversations in your head, stop wonder

Tom Robinson
Jul 192 min read


The Moment You See the Truth About the Avoidant who “Freaked Out” and discarded You.
The Moment You See the Truth About the Avoidant Who Discarded You
There comes a point in your healing journ

Tom Robinson
Jul 133 min read


Is Your Ex Even Aware of Their Unhealed Dismissive Avoidant Attachment Style?
Dismissive avoidants often aren't aware

Tom Robinson
Jul 94 min read


Letting Go of Past Relationships- how to move forward!
Being tossed aside, breadcrumbed, and emotionally thrown around by someone you truly loved—but who was emotionally unavailable—is a kind of

Tom Robinson
Jul 22 min read


How to Recognise a Dismissive Avoidant Partner - And Leave Before They Emotionally Discard you
How to Recognize a Dismissive-Avoidant — And Leave Before They Emotionally Discard You
If you’ve ever felt confused, neglected, or suddenly

Tom Robinson
Jul 13 min read


Dismissive Avoidants: unhealed Blocking and Ghosting
When someone avoidant ghosts you or blocks you, it says everything about them — and nothing about you.
Let’s be honest: disappearing, going

Tom Robinson
Jun 291 min read


Romantic Relationships: A Final Farewell to the Avoidant
Letting Go of the Avoidant: A Goodbye That Sets Me Free
The avoidant discards you in silence—cold, sudden, often without warning. And just

Tom Robinson
Jun 262 min read


Letting Go of the “Freaking Out” Unhealed
At some point, you stop romanticizing the cycle. You understand your own patterns — the anxious pull, the over-functioning, the deep need to

Tom Robinson
Jun 242 min read


Why They Discard the Right One And End Up Resentful
At first, the avoidant feels in control.
They pull away from intensity, convincing themselves that emotional chaos equals danger. So when t

Tom Robinson
Jun 162 min read


The Silence of the Avoidant Ex is all the Closure You Need
If they’ve never written to explain, to apologise, to give you closure—then that is your closure. Let that sink in. If someone can...

Tom Robinson
Jun 102 min read


The Quiet Bliss of Letting Go 😘
The Quiet Bliss of Letting Go
There is a moment — a distinct, quiet turning point — when suffering softens into understanding. When pain, o

Tom Robinson
Jun 82 min read


Dismissive Avoidant Ex? The Truth Behind the Mask 👻
The dismissive avoidant wears a convincing mask. At first, they seem composed, independent, emotionally "above it all." But underneath that

Tom Robinson
Jun 22 min read


The Anxious Partner Wins in the End
The Anxious Wins in the End
They always say the anxious one feels too much, holds on too tightly, loves too deeply. And maybe that’

Tom Robinson
May 312 min read


When the Anxious and Avoidant collide ❤️🩹
When the Anxious Meets the Avoidant: The Journey of Soulmates Through Healing and Synchronicity
The most beautiful outcome isn’t always the

Tom Robinson
May 262 min read


From Anxious to Free: My Healing Journey ❤️🩹
Dismissive avoidant 👋

Tom Robinson
May 132 min read


Crying in Therapy Isn’t Weakness — It’s Healing for the Mind, Body and Soul
Crying in Therapy Isn’t Weakness — It’s Healing for the Mind, Body and Soul

Tom Robinson
May 82 min read


Dismissive Avoidant Ex? How to break free - for GOOD!
There comes a moment when you just say sod it —not out of anger, but from a place of clarity. When you’ve been involved with a dismissive...

Tom Robinson
Apr 92 min read
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