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Your Ex: When the Illusion CRACKS!
There is a strange kind of freedom that comes after loving someone deeply for a very long time—and hurting just as deeply in return.
For a

Tom Robinson
Mar 62 min read


Your Ex : They didn’t move on - they ran! 🏃
When a relationship ends with a dismissive-avoidant partner, it can feel like they moved on overnight. One moment you were building somethin

Tom Robinson
Mar 52 min read


The Death of Your Avoidant Ex…
When someone dies, the narrative is complete. There is no ambiguity. No “what if they text.” No imagining them with someone else. No wonderi

Tom Robinson
Feb 273 min read


Avoidant Ex : Everything You Need to Know
If you understand everything in this video then you’re free. There really isn’t anything left to say… The whole thing is devastating - avoidant attachment causes so much hurt, pain and confusion - ON BOTH SIDES…. But eventually, when you finally understand, you CAN set yourself free. As for the avoidant? Well, they’re just starting their painful journey.

Tom Robinson
Feb 221 min read


Loving a Dismissive Avoidant: What do I do? 💔
Dismissive avoidant ex partner and marriage

Tom Robinson
Feb 224 min read


Dear Avoidant Ex
Dear Avoidant,
You don’t like that word.
It feels accusatory. Like someone is calling you cold, distant, incapable of love.
But you’re no

Tom Robinson
Feb 212 min read


To the Avoidant Who Walked Away From Real Love
To the Avoidant Who Walked Away from Real Love
If you’re the avoidant who walked away from the love of your life and built a “safe” but emo

Tom Robinson
Feb 203 min read


Your Ex and Their Conscience (or lack of one)
There’s a particular kind of silence that feels louder than screaming.
It’s the silence of someone who once held your face in their hands,

Tom Robinson
Feb 193 min read


You Do Not Need the Headache of Your Avoidant Ex
You Do Not Need the Headache of Your Avoidant Ex
Let’s be honest for a moment: what did he really give you… besides a headache?
Sure, in t

Tom Robinson
Feb 182 min read


Red Flags to Look Out for With Avoidant Partners!
That is the particular cruelty of dating someone with an unhealed avoidant attachment style. You often have met someone who could be right, but they are far too emotionally unhealed to hold real love. Red Flags to look out for...

Tom Robinson
Jan 63 min read


Why Your Ex Freaked Out, Blocked and/or Ghosted You 👻
When an avoidant blocks you, it’s not because they don’t care.
It’s because they do.
They block you because they love you and they don’t kn

Tom Robinson
Jan 42 min read


Your Avoidant Ex: The Great Escape (spoiler; you can’t outrun yourself.) 😆
Dismissive avoidant core wound of shame. Your ex and healing

Tom Robinson
Jan 33 min read


Your Avoidant Ex: Letting Go and Dating Again!
Dismissive avoidant ex and dating again

Tom Robinson
Jan 23 min read


Your Ex: Why They Privately Resent Their Chosen Partner.
There is a particular kind of grief that comes from loving an avoidant partner.
Not the explosive kind.
The quiet kind.
The kind that makes

Tom Robinson
Jan 13 min read


Your Avoidant Ex: Timing WAS NOT the problem!!
I hear it in close relationships all the time.
The constant references to the ex.
The one they ran from.
The one who “freaked them out.”
T

Tom Robinson
Dec 29, 20252 min read


Your Ex: The Lie of The Curated Life
Dismissive avoidants in relationships

Tom Robinson
Dec 28, 20252 min read


How Do You Know When You’ve Finally Processed What Happened With Your Avoidant Ex?
How Do You Know When You’ve Finally Processed What Happened With Your Avoidant Ex?

Tom Robinson
Dec 27, 20252 min read


Why You DON’T Send your Ex A Christmas Message!
The festive season has a way of making everything feel softer. The lights, the music, the nostalgia — and suddenly you’re holding your phone

Tom Robinson
Dec 24, 20252 min read


Your Ex: The Letter You Write (but don’t bother to send)
A Letter to the Dismissive Avoidant Who Ran From Love
You ran from love.
Not because it wasn’t real,
but because it was.
Your nervous syst

Tom Robinson
Dec 23, 20252 min read


Your Ex: The Unhealed Dismissive Avoidant and the Deadly Disease of Busyness 😆
The Deadly Disease of “Being Busy”
There is a deadly disease running through relationships, business, and modern life.
It’s called being bu

Tom Robinson
Dec 22, 20252 min read
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