hat’s the paradox: they can’t stay with the person who showed them real love and emotional closeness… but they also can’t be alone. So they rebound. Quickly. Not because they’ve healed — but because they choose a partner they don’t have to be real with. Someone who doesn’t require vulnerability, depth, or emotional presence. Someone who allows them to bypass the pain. Because sitting in the flames? Feeling the grief? Quietly processing, healing, and working through their w