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Which One Are You? Take the test and find OUT!
Which One Are You?
There are four people in this story.
A. B. C. And D.
And here's the uncomfortable part:
One of them might be you.
You won't know which one until you're willing to look closely at the parts of yourself you would rather keep hidden.
So… are you brave enough?
A is the Avoidant.
A loves B.
Not a little.
Not conveniently.
Completely.
The chemistry is ridiculous. The sex is incredible. The connection feels rare—the kind of connection people spend year

Tom Robinson
Aug 225 min read


Healing After Loving a Dismissive Avoidant
Healing After Loving a Dismissive Avoidant
What is there left to say after you’ve healed from a relationship with a dismissive-avoidant partner—after you finally realize that they were more unhealed than you? Honestly, not much.
The pain they cause is indescribable. I carried it with me for decades after mine. For so long, I thought he was independent, strong, untouchable. But the truth was, he wasn’t running from me—he was running from his wounds. He loved me, but he didn’

Tom Robinson
Aug 29, 20253 min read


The Avoidant Dismissive ex and the Extended Pain from Breadcrumbing
Love should be a place of warmth, connection, and mutual respect. But for those entangled with an avoidant-dismissive partner, love can...

Tom Robinson
Mar 1, 20254 min read
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