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The Pay Off From Healing from Your Avoidant Ex
Healing Made Me Less Social, Not More Lonely
Arthur Schopenhauer wrote:
"A high degree of intellect tends to make a man unsocial. For the more he has in himself, the less he will want from other people."
For a long time, I thought this was about intelligence. Now I think it can be about healing.
The more I have healed, the less I need from other people.
That doesn't mean I dislike people. It doesn't mean I think I'm better than anyone else. It simply means that I no long

Tom Robinson
Jun 23 min read


Your Ex: The Love–Hate Rollercoaster of Loving a Dismissive Avoidant
The Love–Hate Rollercoaster of Loving a Dismissive Avoidant

Tom Robinson
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Healing from the Avoidant Dismissive
Healing from an Avoidant Dismissive: My Journey I had to take my site down for a while to focus on myself. From the very start of this...

Tom Robinson
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