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Why Your Ex Freaked Out, Blocked and/or Ghosted You 👻
When an avoidant blocks you, it’s not because they don’t care.
It’s because they do.
They block you because they love you and they don’t kn
Tom Robinson
Jan 42 min read
Your Avoidant Ex: The Great Escape (spoiler; you can’t outrun yourself.) 😆
Dismissive avoidant core wound of shame. Your ex and healing
Tom Robinson
Jan 33 min read
Your Avoidant Ex: Letting Go and Dating Again!
Dismissive avoidant ex and dating again
Tom Robinson
Jan 23 min read
Your Ex: Why They Privately Resent Their Chosen Partner.
There is a particular kind of grief that comes from loving an avoidant partner.
Not the explosive kind.
The quiet kind.
The kind that makes
Tom Robinson
Jan 13 min read
Your Avoidant Ex: Timing WAS NOT the problem!!
I hear it in close relationships all the time.
The constant references to the ex.
The one they ran from.
The one who “freaked them out.”
T
Tom Robinson
Dec 29, 20252 min read
Your Ex: The Lie of The Curated Life
Dismissive avoidants in relationships
Tom Robinson
Dec 28, 20252 min read
How Do You Know When You’ve Finally Processed What Happened With Your Avoidant Ex?
How Do You Know When You’ve Finally Processed What Happened With Your Avoidant Ex?
Tom Robinson
Dec 27, 20252 min read
Your Ex: The Quiet Exhaustion of Avoidance
Imagine your ex’s pain years on
Tom Robinson
Dec 26, 20253 min read
Why You DON’T Send your Ex A Christmas Message!
The festive season has a way of making everything feel softer. The lights, the music, the nostalgia — and suddenly you’re holding your phone
Tom Robinson
Dec 24, 20252 min read
Your Ex: The Letter You Write (but don’t bother to send)
A Letter to the Dismissive Avoidant Who Ran From Love
You ran from love.
Not because it wasn’t real,
but because it was.
Your nervous syst
Tom Robinson
Dec 23, 20252 min read
Your Ex: The Unhealed Dismissive Avoidant and the Deadly Disease of Busyness 😆
The Deadly Disease of “Being Busy”
There is a deadly disease running through relationships, business, and modern life.
It’s called being bu
Tom Robinson
Dec 22, 20252 min read
The Tragedy for Your Avoidant Ex’s Partner
The Slow Unraveling: What Happens to the Partner of a Dismissive-Avoidant Over Time
Dismissive-avoidant patterns don’t usually explode; the
Tom Robinson
Dec 9, 20253 min read
Your Avoidant Ex: Why It’s Pointless Calling Them Out!
Dismissive avoidants don’t listen
Tom Robinson
Dec 8, 20252 min read
🖤 Marrying “nice”…. Why it’s a disaster!
🖤 The Dismissive Avoidant Who Married “Nice”
The dismissive avoidant finally settled down.
They found someone “nice.” Someone who doesn’t
Tom Robinson
Nov 5, 20252 min read
They’ve got everything - except love 🤦♂️
They’ve got everything — except love.
We all know them.
The picture-perfect couples with the “dream life.”
The house. The cars. The careers
Tom Robinson
Oct 29, 20252 min read
The Dismissive Avoidant Love Story: Two Possible Endings, Both a Disaster!
The Dismissive Avoidant Love Story: Two Possible Endings, Both a Disaster
Tom Robinson
Oct 23, 20254 min read
It wasn’t Bad Timing - It Was Their Avoidance
It Wasn’t Bad Timing — It Was Avoidance
They tell themselves it was bad timing. Life was complicated, they weren’t ready, things just didn’
Tom Robinson
Oct 19, 20252 min read
They Love You, But They Can’t Meet You: The Dismissive Avoidant Nightmare
They Love You, But They Can’t Meet You: The Dismissive Avoidant Nightmare
Tom Robinson
Oct 7, 20252 min read
Why Your Ex Will Use You to Get Over You
They Will Use You to Get Over You
Being caught in the cycle of loving a dismissive avoidant is like living in constant whiplash. Just when
Tom Robinson
Oct 1, 20252 min read
The Avoidant Fails at The One Thing that Means Everything- LOVE.
The truth about avoidants is that they cannot handle accountability. They run from it, deflect it, twist it, anything but face the reality o
Tom Robinson
Sep 22, 20252 min read
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